👋🏽 Thank you for opening our post! Oh, first a little note for the males here who prefer to ignore the FM4F part, we've made a special message for you 😈 Women can read on 😇

We (well, mom came up with this idea first, which was and still is quite a surprise for dad) have found ourselves wishing to bring someone else into our lives. Not just anyone, but someone who strongly feels the happiest when making others happy. We, dad mostly, have gone through some really tough years, most of those things are fortunately resolved although the effects of those years are more or less still lingering. That's where you, a single young woman (yes, we're open to an age gap), come in. You're empathic, caring, affectionate, loving, being able to bring out the best in others. Still it's not a one way street, so you can expect to get those back in return.

Things we'd love to share together with you are watching movies 📽️, visit concerts 🎶 and the theater 🎭, hiking 🥾, even travelling by boat 🛥️ which is something we love the most (but will only be possible when it's the right season). Travelling by car is also fun, 😁 Of course we also love just staying at home.

Intimacy is welcome but only when we all feel comfortable with that happening. Needless to say, communication is really important there since we don't want to cross any limits, but also to find out together what we all want out of it if or when it's going to happen. And yes, expect us to be somewhat shy in that department, so don't worry if you feel the same!

We don't care for your background, we're an interracial couple ourselves and we welcome someone who's roots are both from here or any other part of the world. As for appearance, dad is 182cm tall, has a bit of a dad bod (obviously I would almost say 😅 ), 90kg, Caucasian (Dutch) with brown/grey hair and blue eyes. Mom is 143cm tall, hwp, Asian (Indonesian) with brown eyes and black hair.

To be clear we intend it'll lead to something IRL, we're not looking for an online affair. We're from Rotterdam ourselves. Where you live is not important as long as you're able to meet us. Easiest is within The Netherlands of course, like South Holland or any of the nearby provinces(*) for easy meeting. Still a bit further away like Belgium or Germany is also possible, just keep in mind if it's realistically possible for you to travel to us. For safety reasons, both yours and ours, meeting each other for the first time will be somewhere in public.

We do have some hard limits though. While we're open to an agegap, keep it legal. Also we're non smokers and don't want anyone who does smoke. And before we get into too personal conversations here, we want to verify each other through videocall (you'll be amazed how many guys tried pretending to be a woman and obviously failed).

Other limits, both yours and ours, we'll talk about as we get to know each other. We will always respect those! When you're interested, just let us know and we'll take it from there.

O ja, wij spreken ook Nederlands 😁

(*) To name some places which are within a relatively easy distance from us:

Aalsmeer, Alblasserdam, Alphen aan den Rijn, Amersfoort, Amsterdam, Arkel, Barendrecht, Bergambacht, Bergschenhoek, Berkel en Rodenrijs, Bleiswijk, Bodegraven, Boskoop, Breda, Breukelen, Brielle, Bunnik, Capelle aan den IJssel, Culemborg, Delft, Den Haag/The Hague, Dordrecht, Driebergen, Gouda, Gouderak, Haarlem, Haastrecht, Hazerswoude, Hellevoetsluis, Hendrik-Ido-Ambacht, Hillegom, Hoofddorp, Houten, Krimpen aan den Lek, Krimpen aan den IJssel, Leerdam, Leiden, Leiderdorp, Leidschendam, Lekkerkerk, Lisse, Maassluis, Moerkapelle, Monster, Moordrecht, Mijdrecht, Naaldwijk, Nieuwegein, Nieuwerkerk aan den IJssel, Nootdorp, Oud-Beijerland, Oudewater, Ouderkerk aan den IJssel, Papendrecht, Poortugaal, Pijnacker, Reeuwijk, Rhoon, Ridderkerk, Rijswijk, Sassenheim, Schiedam, Schoonhoven, Sliedrecht, Spijkenisse, Uithoorn, Utrecht, Vlaardingen, Voorburg, Voorschoten, Waddinxveen, Wassenaar, Woerden, Wijk bij Duurstede, Zevenhuizen, Zeist, Zoetermeer, Zoeterwoude, Zwijndrecht