Especially as a guy. You gotta be eye-catching right off the bat since there’s so much competition. What am I gonna say, “Looking for my soulmate”. Who isn’t? I’m here to offer a little more personality than that!

Full disclosure, I’m going through a separation at the moment. I have the house all to myself - wife moved out a few weeks back. We’re not divorced yet because those are expensive, but it’s going that direction. We are still amicable with each other when we have to be, but it’s rare we are in contact at this point. No ill will, she just wanted a change.

I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. I love being a husband and it crushed me when she told me. Despite my age, I’d still love to be a father at some point, too. I want to be a family man. The kind of guy you can rely on, feel safe with, and the kind of guy who will actively want to help you with the kids, chores, and anything else. I miss having a partner in crime. Someone I can be my full self with. I believe in communication, transparency, and trust. Relationships don’t work without that. Right now, I’m not in a position to be a sole breadwinner. I make decent money but need a little help for now. I got the house in the separation, so if you’re open to relocating, we can see how things progress.

My hobbies are music (I play guitar), sports, binging shows, being active, going on walks, and spending time with my pup. I like to joke a lot and can be pretty random. I have a goofy sense of humor and like to stay in positive spirits as much as possible. I’m not jacked but I think I look pretty good for my age. I try to stay in shape and take care of myself.

I guess this is a bit long. If you like what you see, feel free to reach out and let me know. First 20 replies get a free handbag!