30F, living in Arizona. Definitely prefer older men. I'm originally from the east coast, so sarcasm and the ability to banter is a huge plus.

I'm in the medical field. First responder to be more specific. In my free time I collect records. Music is huge to me. I'm a big fan of 80s new wave and metal, alternative, indie and specifically Mac Miller lol. Sharing music is a love language. Horror movies and anything spooky is cool. I love getting outside and recently bought a kayak. I used to go a lot back home and just started going again here. I'm also on one of those "health journeys" (insert eye roll) so I go to the gym when I can. Was once upon a time a CrossFit bro.

I'm pretty nerdy admittedly. Star Wars, Harry Potter, LOTR... All of it. Stranger Things is honestly a massive hyper fixation for me currently and I have zero shame in that lol. I love to build lego's. I've also been known to play the occasionalll video game. I'd love to eventually play d&d, sort of on my bucket list.

I have two dogs, they're a little on the wild side but they're the sweetest and kind of my everything.

If it matters, I'm 5'8, brown hair, blue/green eyes, freckles and glasses. Thick but working on it obviously. (please for the love of god do not make your first message to me "pic?", we'll get there, but making that the first thing is such a turn off. i want to actually get to know you, and i'd love for you to get to know me.)

Honestly I'm just ready to settle down. Dating is hard and has been hard. All I want is to be happy and be happy with someone. Mutual happiness lol. I want a family, I want a house with a yard and just. Like I said. To be happy. I'm such a hopeless romantic. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'd love to give it to someone finally.

Anyway. If I sound cool or whatever, let's talk and see where it goes :)