Hello there! Hope you're having a fantastic day :-D

I'm single and I'm 36 years old. I'm 5'10", 190lb, have dark hair and a beard, and a dad-bod (not bad, bit of a belly I'm working on). Feel free to ask me about my kinks, I have a lot of them. Online is fine for a short time, but I want to meet and I can't do LDR anymore, it hurts too much.

About Me:

Communication is key: I believe in open, honest, and meaningful conversations — candor is important to me. Whether it's discussing our dreams, sharing our daily experiences, or exploring our deepest thoughts, I'm here for it all. Open, honest communication is the best kink.

Long-term aspirations: I'm looking for a genuine connection that could lead to a lifelong partnership. I value loyalty, trust, and mutual growth in a relationship.

Exploring passions: I have many kinks and look forward to exploring each other's kinks, fantasies, and desires in the bedroom (and out!). It's important to me that we create a safe and trusting environment where we can both feel comfortable and excited to share our passions, even if those kinks are darker in nature. I'm a top, and aftercare is important ;-)

Drugs: I'm DDF and would love if you are too.

Initial Meetings: I am polite and gentlemanly. I often come across as cold at first. I have a rule that I won't touch you anywhere you won't touch me, so feel free to show me where that is if you want to progress quicker at first. Once I open up, I am affectionate and love being in each other's space.

My Interests:

Hobbies: I enjoy a lot of hobbies, but here's a short list: cooking, video/board/RP games, shows, computers, knot-work, and writing erotica, to name a few. I also build a small town every year and tear it down again, so I have the basics of tools, carpentry, leatherworking, spinning, and weaving. I'm pretty knowledgeable about Scotch and other alcohols and cocktails. I'd love to share them with someone special and learn about all that person's hobbies and interests.

Personal growth: I do my best to be constantly learning and improving myself. If you want to join in whatever I'm learning, that's great! My latest educational endeavor is learning Japanese, I'm not very good at it, wanna help?

Personality: I'm an introvert who does a lot outside the house. I'm vibrant about spending time with my partner and family. I tend to teach a lot, which isn't always good, but I'm patient and listen well. I also love deep conversations and discussing controversial topics. My love languages includes quality time, words of affection, and physical touch.

What I'm Looking For:

Details: 36 or younger, average, slim, or petite preferred, DDF, single, female, preferably without kids (but open to it), interested in having kids is greatly preferred. Local to Southern California.

A genuine connection: Someone who values deep, meaningful conversations and is willing be honest with their thoughts and feelings once we learn to trust each other. I won't run away when presented with scary information, I would love to show you that.

Commitment: I'm looking for a partner who is serious about building a long-term relationship. Of course, I'm not looking for instant commitment, but commitment isn't a scary word to me; it's a goal.

Open-mindedness: A person who is open to exploring each other's desires and passions.

Shared interests: Let's enjoy activities like watching shows, cooking together, playing board/video/RP/bedroom games, going to interesting historical events and museums, and creating new memories together.

If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you! Please drop me a message with a bit about yourself and what you're looking for in a relationship. Let's see where this journey takes us :-D

Looking forward to connecting!

PS: Sorry if this post is long, I'm kinda verbose.