Hi all

I’m looking for something quite specific when it comes to my needs and desires. I’m looking for a highly Dominant man to be a part of my life. But I’m not looking for your typical “Dom”. I’m looking for someone with passion and fire. Someone obsessed with me and I, them. Not overly, unhealthy obsessed but obsessed with my safety and security and happiness. In return you’d get the exact same things from me. I love deeply and passionately when it comes to the right person and I will do anything I can to make my significant other happy.

Some examples of what I’m looking for:

1. I need someone who wants to know where I’m at all the time. Not in a stalkerish way, but in a “I need to know where she is for her safety” way. I can tell the difference as I’ve had someone like this before.

2. If I wanna go out, or go out with girlfriends, you drop me off and pick me up. Not because you don’t trust me, but because you don’t trust other people, especially their driving (and maybe mine too heheh). You want to make sure I get there safely and get home safely.

3. When it comes to mutual decision making, your way goes because you’re older and wiser. However you listen to my input and take it into consideration but ultimately your decision is final.

4. You hold my hand in public. You do small acts of PDA. You want to let the world know that I’m yours and vice versa. This is part of the healthy obsession thing.

These are just a few examples of things I would enjoy. You won’t win me over by making me call you “Daddy” or “Sir” immediately or by making me follow your rules immediately. I’ve been down this road before so I kinda know what I’m looking for and what to watch out for. If you’ve made it this far use the word ‘penguin’ in your reply so I know you’ve read this. I know some of you are wondering what my sexual interests are and they are as follows: blind folds, bondage, breast play, nipple play, oral, and dirty talk. Pretty basic, I know. But I haven’t branched out yet in my sexual aspect of a dynamic. I’m willing to try most things except for a short list I’ve come up with so far.

Vanilla me, you might ask? Well I have a pup whom I’m obsessed with and I’d like to get another dog in the future. So you loving dogs has to be a must. I like to cook and bake and read. I also like to go out on weekends as well but can also have a night in.

With this so called passion and obsession, I’m not meaning us to be up each others asses 24/7 but for us to have that burning desire for each other. And again, your desire to keep me safe because I’m your most prized possession. I know this is not the usual super sexual post that some men want and need and that’s okay. I know what I’m looking for as I’ve been down this road before so hopefully I can find it. Happy searching.