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40 [M4F] #MN Engineer looking to build an a-typical family
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EOD_Bad_Karma is a male age 40 looking for a female in Minnesota
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Iā€™m a successful man and I have a 19f girlfriend. We both want another woman to join us and form a closed triad relationship. The goal is happiness, love from all sides and kids some day. I donā€™t expect my partners to work, but if thereā€™s no kids involved, I donā€™t see a reason why you shouldnā€™t. To me, being a stay at home parent is a very important job. Every kid should have at least one.

Weā€™re both very physically fit. I work out 3-5x a week and sheā€™s a live acting performer (think plays such as ā€œhairsprayā€ and such, nothing nude). So, physical fitness is important to both of us. When we arenā€™t busy, we go out, love to try new places to eat, watch other live shows and sometimes we just stay in, cuddled up while we watch tv with our dog.

I would say our life is pretty amazing, but she wants a girlfriend and Iā€™m up for a 2nd. Would not be my first poly relationship.

Deal Breakers:

  • Must want to have children. Would ideally have to live together a year to see if we are compatible first. No clue on an exact number of kids, but at least 1 from each of my partners. Some days I want 400 babies but, really, 6 sounds good.

  • Under 30. For health reasons and having kids.

  • Average or better physical fitness. Neither of us find the ā€œBBWā€ figure appealing. And we like to go dancing together. So, stamina is fairly important for many reasons.

I wonā€™t post a picture of us because I value our privacy and this is the internet. But can supply them in DMs.

Cons of being with us:

  • I work a lot. Usually 50-60, but 70hrs in a week happens every few months. And thereā€™s a chance Iā€™ll be gone for a few months to work overseas on a project. My job is demanding, but it also offers us a very comfortable life. Iā€™ll switch jobs in a few years for something more stay at home that pays less, but for now I make above the top 5% bracket.

  • This is a non-conventional relationship dynamic. Weā€™ll get looks in public. We donā€™t care. We already do and we hold hands, grab each others butts and laugh often. Weā€™ll be happy together, at home or anywhere.

  • My current house isnā€™t big enough for a huge family. So weā€™d definitely have to move at some point. It wonā€™t be a problem, I just donā€™t see a point in living a gigantic house right this moment. More cleaning and all that before we need it. Will probably hire a maid at that point.

If this is appealing to you, feel free to reach out. If this isnā€™t, I hope you all find whatever makes you happy.

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