I am NOT looking for online-only. I want to meet you in-person for dating, for sharing fun times, dates, summer fun and for sharing romance and sweet, loving times in-and-out of your bed or mine... but let's start out slowly, ok? I still think a "hello" is best served with flowers and a big smile. Don't you?

I'm a man living in Lucerne, California. Lucerne is close to Clear Lake (the lake, not the town.) I am single, unpartnered and in no relationship. I am not a cheater, I like to be the loving, loyal sweet guy that I am. If I had a choice, you would be a woman who feels the same... however, in most cases that is not how it is. Most of the people on Reddit seem to be in relationships and they want more, they want to have someone to cheat on. That is not me.

Oh yes, I am older than you... 68. You have to be ok with that. I do not smoke, do not get high on drugs, do not get drunk. I am not homeless. YOU have to be able to say the same. You know that are so many homeless people in this area, looking for a warm bed for the night. I don't want that. I'm open to a one-time encounter, if you do, but I will always hope that one time leads to many times!

I like to make music. To sing, to play my instruments... that is what gets me high, that is my thing. I like to write, too. I am always searching for the inspiration for the next song, the next poem or short story. Perhaps you can me a Muse and inspire me to write a future classic? Hey, make me your boyfriend... for me there will only be YOU and nobody else, and vice versa, I hope!

Let's you and I be honest and truthful from the start. For our beginning, please only reply with a DM or PM message...no comments. Let's see if we mesh well together, and then if we do, let's make plans to meet in-person, IRL- that means In Real Life... the only way I know how to love you.