I'm a 34-year-old male from Connecticut, looking for a switch female partner from New England or NY. My goal is to connect on an emotional and mature level, with shared interests in both kink and vanilla aspects of life. I want to find someone to share both the good times and the bad, growing stronger together.

What I'm Looking For:

• Connection: Laughter, romance, love, and trust.

• Priorities:

While dating, I want to be your second priority. Your primary focus should be on yourself, your life, and your future, as mine is on me and mine.

Happiness and security alone are crucial to finding them together.

• Philosophy of Love:

Love is an offering, not possession. It's about offering joy and easing suffering, requiring empathy and mutual sharing.

Getting to Know Each Other:

Once we've established trust and honesty through chatting, I'd love to meet in person, perhaps for a meal or a fun outing. Exploring new places, like a forest, would be a great way to bond.

About Me:

I'm a demisexual male switch, standing at 6 feet tall and weighing around 220 pounds. I have a full, long beard and a shaved head, which I maintain with regular visits to the barber every three weeks. My hazel eyes complement my brown hair, adding to my distinct look.

• Switch:

  I embrace both Dominant and Submissive roles, trusting that our compatibility will lead to a satisfying experience. My honest disclosure is meant to build acceptance of my nature.

• Communication:

  A relationship should be a two-way street. Both partners need to be willing to compromise and fulfill each other's needs.

Interests:

• Gaming:

PC games and Dungeons & Dragons (3.5 & 5th edition).

• Outdoor Activities: Hiking, bonfire nights, and exploring nature.

• Reading:

Fantasy novels like The Legend of Drizzt, Harry Potter, Eragon, A Song of Ice & Fire, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, and the Mistborn trilogy. The Magicians, The Last Kingdom.

• Animals:

I love animals, especially dogs. I currently own a Yellow Belly Slider Turtle named Tokka and a cat named Munch.

Hard Limits:

• No hard-partying, daily drinking, poly.
• Preference for partners under 200 pounds I'm not comfortable with a partner weighting as much or more then myself. -Age Gap of more then plus or minus 10 years.

Communication:

I'm looking for meaningful conversations where both parties are actively engaged. I'm not a kink dispenser; I want a romantic relationship with love and kinks.

Instructions:

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Thank you for taking the time to get to know me.