Me: 31, 5'6", 380lbs, brown hair and eyes, 48E, 11 shoe. I live in upstate NY. I have 2 cats and a dog. I'm battling the state for disability for invisible illness. I live in the mountains and I'm a free spirit. I am usually Dominant in my daily life but I want to get to know a Dominant partner as a primary partner. I don't currently have a primary, I have 2 submissives that are married themselves with nesting partners. I want this to be my turn. I love baking, crafting, smoking weed, gaming, chilling, YouTube, adventures, art museums/exhibits, horror movies, my pets, the sims, DIYing, outdoor chill activities. I'm a huge foodie too! Always exploring new foods. I'm demisexual and it takes a lot of safety in a partnership to feel sexual feelings.

You: 35 , Dominant, child free, protector, understanding of the deep cerebral aspects of bdsm, supportive and understanding of mental health, nerd, lover of animals and food. Loves big girls and knows how to handle them. Understanding and accepting of queer identities and open emotionally and sexually. Polyamarous but seeking a primary partnership because I am. Kind to service workers, ally to marginalized groups, pro choice and bonus points if you've had a vasectomy. Extra bonus points if you're hung😋 body doesn't matter to me as long as we have a mutual attraction to one another and vibe with each other. Preferably local to Capital Region NY or close to it. I also have family in long island too! I don't mind moving there tbh.

Goal: I'm looking for a primary partnership with bdsm dynamic. Someone who knows I can't be submissive all of the time but absolutely loves to be a caregiver and friend when I can't be. I want someone to share life with. I want someone to date with intentions of the long haul. I want to go on adventures together, support each other, help each other grow. I want someone who knows how to make me feel comfortable and safe within their presence.

Kinks: orgasm control, impact, ddlg, bondage, gags, oral fixation, worship, Master/slave, breath play, sensualism, affection, edging, hypno

Chat me with: ASL/name, small about you, and a selfie. I will reciprocate.

Can't wait to chat🫶🏻