I'm learning typical vanilla monogamous relationships aren't for me and I'd really like something with a bit more spice. Ideally something involving ENM or exhibitionism, I'm not too picky on the details but I'm most attracted to women who enjoy showing off and enjoy being unashamedly slutty.

Unfortunately I've also learned these types of women aren't typically the type I can have an intellectual conversation with, so it's been difficult to find someone who I can have it all with. I think the mental stimulation that comes from this naughty behavior is just as important as the physical aspect, and I've had some amazing relationships with women who understand that too.

Maybe you're a working professional who understands the power of sex appeal? Or a college student who sees what opportunities sugaring might bring. Whatever your motivation, I'd love to hear what about it gets you off.

In the bedroom I'd describe myself as a "pleasure Dom". I like to be in charge but get such a kick out of giving my partner lots of orgasms, especially as a reward for doing as she's told 😉 Not much into pain or violence but enjoy a bit of rope play.

I'm "monogamish", I think I only want to be emotionally attached to one person and hope for a partner who desires the same. I've had offers for poly relationships in the past and have declined, but never say never. I'm open to long-distance as work keeps me pretty busy for okay 24/7, but weekends are usually open. Also open to traveling to you.

Me: 6'2", tan skin and dark hair. Athletic and looking for someone else who stays fit. In my perfect world my partner and I would go to EDM shows and wineries together like normal people with the added secret that you're not wearing anything under that tight little dress. I have a decent house to myself. I also I have a spoiled little rescue dog, so hope you're a dog person.

If this interests you, feel free to send a chat invite with a photo and I'll return the favor. Also feel free to include your base desires so we can see if we're compatible.

Primary kinks: exhibitionism, hotwife, CNC, power exchange, public play, degradation, cuck/stag/vixen