As title says, really nothing is forced and lets just see how we vibe. First off a little bit about me and what you would get, then a little bit about what I'm looking for in a woman.
Me: I'm a typical white Austrian with a decent job (not rich though) and an appartment aka I can sustain myself comfortably (details upon clicking and getting to know each other better). I'm 5.10ft, 165lbs, have short dark brown hair and blueish eyes. Pictures only after a real connection has been formed from my side. I like bouldering/climbing, hiking, going for good food or the movies or an arcade. Indoors I like watching anime (all genres can be good)/movies/shows, gaming or thinking about math problems.
What you get: A man with the above traits that tries to be understanding, is communicative, relatively uncomplicated when it comes to everyday life decisions and that has well defined career goals that he is on a good path of achieving. If we click, you will never be taken for granted and I will give you a lot of time and affection both physically and emotionally. However we would first start out online only until we have formed a deep mutual connection but we can absolutely swap to a different way of communicating at some point.
What I look for in a woman: First of, that really depends on what you want.
Friendship only: In case of friendship, just common interests are enough I guess. You can also ask me for relationship or life advice as I do have a lot of experience and like to think I am empathic. If we click friendly and I find you interesting I will always listen to your day and how you tackle the challenges of life, gladly assisting with advice if you want me to.
FWB: Same as friends but along with occasional sexting, VMs and if we click enough, of course pictures if prefered. IRL meetups possible but depend on how much we click and if our locations/schedule allow it. Long detailed rp's and some kinks are bonus but we can talk about that in detail.
Relationship: Here, there is several things I look for in a potential partner:
Looks and age:
- Age range 18-28. I like to be older/more experienced as I just feel more comfortable that way.
- Slim is bonus, curvy (in the right places) is fine but plus size/thick/obese/whatever you call it I'm just not attracted by, dont judge me.
- Piercings(especially sceptum) are not attractive to me.
- Tattoos are ok if they are not too many (like on legs/shoulders is fine but pls not entire back/front/face)
- Ethnicities are all good, japanese/chinese/korean or african is bonus though.
- All hair styles, long or short can be fine but have hair (I am not into bald women)
Personality:
- Submissive: I'm definitely more the dominant type guy but no man can function without a strong pillar in form of a dedicated woman besides him. I do not expect a blind servant or anything but a woman with more tradtional believes that is happy in her role of standing beside me. That also means nothing in terms of a job, you can have a degree and a super nice and busy job and make a ton of money or only work part time and stay at home caring about the house/appartment/future family (kids are optional with me). Its more a personality thing that I'm the leader, you're the follower. I am well aware this is not for everyone and thats ok, all ppl are different and everyone can look for what they want.
- Religion: As a man of science, I do not believe in god what so ever. If you choose to do so, feel free to if it helps you, but dont expect/hope me to and when it comes to life decisions, pls be rational and go with probabilities.
- Communicative: Its almost ironic that a man has to state this but I really dislike it when you dont tell me whats on your mind or if you have a problem with anything. Be open, be yourself, lets talk it out.
- Common Sense: Another thing I should note is that I am absolutely against recent modern extremists/activists that try to force their weird, science defying "ideology" onto others. I am therefore more in line with JK Rowlings statements on womens rights and equality and content creators like Amala Ekpunobi, Gothix, RK Outpost or Matt Walsh.
- Basic care for hygiene and such is also required.
- If you happen to be smart (degree or interest in science, math) thats a big plus.
- I can not (and also would not want to) relocate within the next couple of years due to my career. Eventually I'd be open for it but its unlikely.
- No smoking or drugs (also no ex drug addicts). Alcohol is fine on special occasions with friends or of course that glass of wine or something for dinner. However no binge drinking, especially if you are angry/frustrated/mean when drunk. I had that shit once already when I was younger and I will never put up with it again.
Thats all I can think of for now. If you check most of if not all of these boxes and are interested, hmu via Chat/DM and tell me which boxes you do not check and why and we can see if there is room to be flexible (I can not promise that without details though). Feel free to add a picture if you want and tell me what it is you are looking for. See you!
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