To put it succinctly, I am looking for a genuine connection, whether in person or online, with someone into ddlg dynamics. I prefer ongoing, and depending on proximity, would like it to develop into something more, but that is not essential. Happy to remain casual and just see where it goes.

About me:I'm 6'2", slender, barber-cut wavy brown hair, glasses, brown eyes, short-trimmed salt-and-pepper beard, tattoos on both my arms. If you're the right size, I could easily manhandle you or just hold you in my arms if you're into that. I have some GWA content too, if you want to check out my profile and listen to my voice.

I've always kind of seen myself as a gentle giant–taciturn, cerebral, enjoys making other people feel good. I love the idea of taking care of someone, whether emotionally, or physically. I want to be someone who can be there for you when you're feeling down or even when something exciting happens to you and you want to share it with someone. I want to praise you for doing a good job, and just encourage you to keep going, to do more, to do better. I want to be your biggest fan and cheerleader and in turn, have you feel devoted to me and feel a need to satisfy me or make me happy or feel good. None of this is to say I can't be masochistic when required, or desired. Happy to mete out some punishment, but with plenty of aftercare. Or just some manhandling.

I am a recent graduate school graduate and I am currently applying to PhD programs. I am a philosophy nerd with a used book addiction. I love coffee, hot sauce, science fiction, and thinking about the impact of technology on identity and desire.

I am experienced in this dynamic, and moderately experienced with kink in general. I've been to sex clubs, I've gone to private sex parties, and I've had plenty of other kinky encounters. If you have any kinks or fantasies you want to explore I am happy to discuss them with you! I am fairly kinky beyond just ddlg and I am pretty open-minded. The sexual component is just as important as the emotional to me so ideally we can talk openly about it soon after we connect.

Please be able to share pictures, especially if the arrangement is primarily online. I want there to be a mutual attraction especially if it will be ongoing. I want to be mindful of your comfort levels and I won't rush you, but I think we would do ourselves a disservice by getting to know each other only to discover later on we aren't attracted to each other.

Shoot me a message and let's talk more details if any of this sounds interesting to you!