Where to begin.

Simply put, I am a teacher at heart, a caregiver, and a Dominant. My ideal partner looks to me for guidance and support, and I am happy to give it. I thrive on being a calming force in your life, and offering encouragement at just the right time.

In past relationships I found this intoxicating dynamic more prevalent the larger the age gap. Who knew.

I realize most of you reading this will be far away and in a different country. I am however, not discouraged.

Who wrote this post?

I am a 30 year old cis gendered white man, 6 feet tall with broad shoulders and an imposing physical presence, with a mirrored personality to match. I am very happy at heart, and positive by nature. I give everyone and everything the benefit of the doubt until shown otherwise. I want to thrive in my own happy world, despite what's taking place around us. Still, I don't live with my head in the sand.

SFW - I am an entrepreneur. I work a lot. I enjoy living outside of the 9-5 box. I am very social, love the outdoors (a lot), dancing, camping, day trips and ghost stories by the fire can describe me in a nutshell. Empathetic and compassionate. I care.

NSFW - Size differential is hot. I am big. You are small...

I am very kinky in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom I enjoy being your dominant, but only our closest friends might know that. We would go far together if you melt under more traditional gender roles and you thrive on being of service and receiving praise. Unfortunately, I just have absolutely no time for brattiness. You might be a beautiful human being but it just won't work.

Mostly, I find myself attracted to spirited, artsy/performer or otherwise alternative personality types. You don't need to be brimming with confidence, but I like to live a very social life and you should be comfortable at my side, if not taking the lead once in a while. Introverts are lovely as well, but we won't be a perfect fit for eachother.

I place a high value on intimacy. Cuddling, sleeping in the same bed, and a little bit of PDA go a long way.

I place the highest value on total open and honest communication at all times. Though, we can both have our little secrets.

I ride a motorcycle, captain a boat for a living, and one day hope to fly for fun.

Today I am putting out into the universe my desire to meet a long term partner who wants the same as me. A romantic, intimate, fun, adventurous and long term relationship. Relocation is not an option for me in the very near future. Hopefully you are reading this either with the desire to start a new, or already living in the same area.

If you're still here, and this is your second or third time reading through, drop me a line. We have nothing to loose and everything to gain.

Cheers -D