Hi! Just found this sub after looking for a good place to find older guys. It’s been a while since I’ve really dated someone significantly older than me, so I’d like to change that. Before I say anything else, I’m not in Dallas specifically, but nearby. Hope this helps!

My name is AJ, I’m twenty two years old and I’m currently taking some online classes to become certified in data analytics, while working part time in childcare. The plan is to stay in my current city long term, and buy a home, but that’s subjected to change if needed. Either way, I’m looking to settle down somewhere and feel comfortable, without fearing another potential upheaval of my life.

I do have chronic pain issues and walk with a cane. Furthermore, I’m on the spectrum, and while I’ve learned to manage both of these things, I get my low days. Additionally, I will be medically transitioning in the near future. If any of the above is a dealbreaker for you then we wouldn’t be compatible.

Moving on, I’d describe myself as pretty nerdy. I enjoy fantasy movies, shows and books a lot, such as Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Game of Thrones, House of the Dragon, Harry Potter, and Merlin. I prefer tea over coffee, and enjoy a cup of chamomile or lavender while it rains outside. I balance my time between going out and staying in—I care deeply about maintaining equilibrium in my life. I play video games, like Skyrim and other fantasy RPGs, but on a casual level; you won’t find me playing Fortnite lol.

With that being said, I’m looking for a LOCAL guy to take my time with, go on dates with, and (hopefully) have a relationship with. “Local” honestly means within 30-60 minutes of me, so take that as you will. Golden age ratio, at least for me, is 35-45. No stringent requirements for looks, but maintaining your health and hygiene is important to me (I’m currently on a weight loss journey myself, would love to have a man join me on that front). I’m 420 friendly and lean to the left politically, so you should too.

My DMs are open to any guys interested! :) willing to send photos of myself in private.