The Title Sums up largely what I seek but let me explain in detail more....

I am looking for a wholesome relationship with a wholesome person, that is kind, caring, loving, nuturing, soft, gentle, feminine, affectionate, easy going, healthy in mind&body&soul, intelligent mentally and emotionally, open minded, non-judgmental, enm(polyamorous), non-materialistic and values deep meaningful connection.

I would say, that the above, pretty much sums up what I want and seek in the person. Being a person myself, that is not driven by money or focused on material possessions. I deeply value traits and come from the soul of a person, where they know and see that soulful connections are one of the best sorts of connections.

Being an older guy, I know there are many women on here that seek an older guy for various reasons. I hope those reasons are honest and truthful and sincere. With no hidden agenda.

Being a lot wiser, I know people do try to take advantage of others and that does break my heart but I also know why such things go on. I have a good understanding of people and human behaviour but I am not seeking to be taken advantage of. I seek wholesome relationship. One that is based on, honesty, truth, love, care, compasionate, understanding, loyality.

Being older I am not as driven by my penis as much. So sex is not my whole obejective in seeking a relationship. In fact I could take it or leave it but I think if I was to deeply love you then to be able to make love when the feelings rise up. Would be great but again sex is not required. Though sex maybe something I would want as part of the relationship only when we have established a very deep mental, emotional connection. I require such connections before I can be intimate, it is just how I was built and I am so happy to be built in that manner.

As for me....

Here are my physical details: - I am 43, 5ft 11inches, average build, hairy, with a hairy chest, oval face, dark hair, brown eyes, tanned olive skin.

Here are my internal details: - I am pansexual demisexual polyamorous (enm), quiet, secure, peaceful, calm, kind, caring, loving, considerate, soft, gentle, authentic, genuine, lonewolf, spiritual, straightforward, no-nonsense, honest, truthful, direct, non-materialistic, minimalist, self-aware, free-spirit. bit of a hippy, logical, rational, critical thinker, non-judgmental.

I aim to live a healthy life and do so with a lot of walking and eating a mixutre of a Vegan and Vegetarian diet. I also don't consume any drugs nor do I drink alcohol. I would also like to give up sugar and processed foods in the near future. With the focus on health and well-being. I take and have regular massages to help keep my body free of knots and tigtness. I look after my mind with therapy to help with peak stress and life issues.

As for other aspects of my life: - I don't watch TV and have not watched TV for over 15 years. I don't consume content through Youtube mostly. There is so much different content on Youtube that this generally really is great for me to watch things and pass time. I do live with parents also and this was not meant to be as long as it has but the aim is to move out. I have never been married and don't want to be married. I also don't have any kids and I also don't want kids. I also tend to lock myself away from people so that I can re-charge and gain peace in my life. So hugely love and need alone time and solitude and complete peace and quiet.

As for hobbies and Interests: - I like doing things alone mostly but may allow someone to enter my life where I share my hobbies and interests with but that is not neccessary. I really like walking and hiking and being in nature and mostly remote nature and secluded nature. I have an interest in the Paranormal World. I like being productive and achiving things. I also like to eat out at Vegan and Vegetarian focused places.