I want a girl who is a newcomer to this kink. A girl who's been having crazy fantasies or dreams, and has come to terms with the fact that she may never be able to get these twisted thoughts out of her mind until she acts at them out.

Maybe she has some unburied trauma?

Maybe she's stuck with vanilla?

Maybe she's been curious about pushing the envelope, but was too shy to ask that nice guy to "get a little rough" ?

But at the same time, she's also a little scared of what an experienced guy might do to her... Will she be able to handle it physically and emotionally?

So allow me to introduce myself. I'm not some creepy, bdsm club-hopping, orgy joining, walks-around-in-leather, carrying-weird-toys guy.

I'm a clean-cut professional who you'd never guess would be into this. Don't get me wrong, you'd pretty quickly glean that I'm a bit intimidating, albeit more in a command-your-respect, hard-to-impress kind of way than a brainless, brutish thug who belongs in jail.

I'm not everyone's type, but I'm attractive and athletic. I've done this before, but I'm selective and not a man-slut. I'm also discreet.

In reading this post, does that girl sound like you? Do you think you'd like to talk and see if we're a match?

I would ask that before replying, you not waste my time and yours and think about what I've written and ask yourself: "Would he be interested in me?"

I'm only looking for someone who meets the following criteria:

Local to Cincinnati, biologically female, conventionally attractive and physically fit. Smart, has an interesting personality and a witty conversationalist. Kind. I don't mind piercings or tats (they can be hot) but you should look innocent enough that strangers, friends and family would be shocked to learn the sick and twisted thoughts that run through your pretty little head.

If that's you, please send me a reply, but a "hi" or "what's up" is not going to cut it. You know a lot about me and what I'm looking from my post, let me know enough about you in your note so that I can tell whether I meet your criteria and you meet mine. Thanks.