Online anywhere is fine but relocating to California in the future ya :p

Hello! Nice to meet you I'm a demi Dom top dude super straight alpha flight sigma mentality whatever the hell y'all kids say these days. Labels are lame.

I am 6'1" 195 blue eyes and dirty blond/brown hair with specs of grey. I look younger than I am and I have been told I am attractive. I'd say I'm a solid 8/10 maybe I have naturally thick legs and I don't really work out anymore. I've never been ripped. I'm a little chubby but I think I'll slim down and work out more this year maybe I have mechanic and dad strength so... I don't have superficial muscles if that's your thing. I enjoy good food and drink. I don't gorge myself tho and I eat healthy most of the time. I have rbf but I'm a sweetheart I swear :) I laugh and smile most of the time but hate taking pictures so you have been warned when you ask for a selfie

I'm divorced, I have two kids and a cat. I am located in the south ATM for work but plan to move back to the Southwest as soon as possible.

After being single for awhile and fooling around I have realized I am semi demi. I just don't enjoy this hook up culture and jumping to sex. I need some connection and more to enjoy myself and actually get off. I think finding a partner on here and working up to things might be best.

I'm pretty laid back. I am funny and smart. Supportive and kind. Very logical and I'm emotionally intelligent. I'm good at most things I try. But I don't really have much ambition to chase the carrot in today's society. I think I'll retire to a mountain side or the desert and become a lonely hermit soon.

I am a lazy coach potato most days. I am very frugal and not materialistic at all. I hate crowds and waiting in lines. So I avoid going out most of the time. Occasionally I will go to a theme park, museum, the movies, a pub, go hang with friends or out to eat.

I'm pretty liberal for the most part, I believe in basic human rights, not racist or sexist at all. I'm not conceited anymore but I still think most people are selfish, evil and dumb as fuck tho. I'm an atheist. I don't hate religious people so if you're a follower of something that's fine. Just don't expect me to attend church with you. I think if you need to buy the newest iPhone or follow a famous person religiously and would take a bullet for them.... You're a loser and probably not a match for me. But whatever makes you happy ya know. I don't care about popularity at all. I hate the influencer scene and can't wait til social media implodes. Some people's opinions and thoughts should stay in there fucking heads. I use social media to share dumb memes and shit that's funny. Don't ask me to subscribe to your onlyfans and pay to talk to you ... That ain't me boo. You like the attention and money is good have at it but I only take free nudes sent to me for love, lust or submission:)

I enjoy gaming, anime/manga, movies, sci-fi and fantasy series, I'm an NBA fan and fantasy football player. I also grew up a big marvel fan as well as jrpgs and anime before they became so mainstream. So I'm a bit of an OG nerd.

I'm more of a soft pleasure Dom but I have experience with rougher stuff and don't mind turning up the heat for my partner if it gets them off.

I'm open to all things but I only believe in polygomy if we're all in a exclusive relationship with each other. Like orgy's all the time. I also am not a cuck at all so if you are into that no thanks. I could possibly be a bull to a lesbian couple or trans maybe or would be okay if you're a cuckquean.

I am absolutely not into scat, diapers or cutting so if you are into those sort of things we would not be compatible.

Anyways I'm looking for someone sweet, kinky, available and interested. As long as your a healthy hwp and willing to exchange selfies to see if we're a match. I consider myself straight, I've only been with cis women and I find feminine features attractive. But I'm openminded if you're a beautiful petite trans woman, NB or femboy feel free to apply.

I think that hits most things idk if I missed something lmk..I'm an open book so feel free to ask me anything. I'm not judgemental and I'm impossible to offend.

Anyways if you read all Helter skelter word vomit and you're actually interested.... hmu with a selfie, a bit about yourself or some questions :) chat or dm either is fine with me.