Hello beautiful human.

I’m semi-retired and I make indie games. I’ve made games for over half my life. I want a life partner who will make games with me!

Maybe you code, maybe you do art, or are a marketing maven, or an amazing writer. Maybe you have game industry experience, maybe not. Bring a passion for making games and we will figure it all out together.

And along the way let’s go on adventures and laugh and have the best of times. Take picnics, go waterfall hunting, take hikes, aimless drives, go peoplewatching, hit the museums, do all of the things.

I’m 5’11”/164. I’m white and I love all races. I don’t abuse substances or people. I have good hygiene. In addition to games I love doing physical things, talking about cultures, people, history, art, books, music. I’ve traveled a lot and love it. I dance Argentine Tango, love sci-fi and fantasy and storytelling ttrpgs. I’m not a gym rat but I lift weights several times a week and am actively building muscle back to about 180 (I have about 30 weeks to hit that target).

I own my own house and I keep it clean. I’m a substantially positive net worth individual and I live entirely off passive income -- but don’t get the wrong idea, I’m not in a position to buy any islands. I just don’t have to work very much; these days I choose to make games.

Sexually I’m dominant and we can talk about all that once we get waaaay better acquainted. And I know how to have an adult conversation about sex without it turning sexual. Anyway I’m quite experienced as a dominant; we will always use safewords, consent will always be obtained in advance and I honor all boundaries. Oh and I’m never going to send you a naughty picture of me (whether you want me to or not), sext you or ask you for an NSFW picture. I prefer to keep that a delightful mystery.

I have a beautiful two year old son that I currently am raising less than half the time so I’m able to take trips and do adult things like date nights. Oh and he’s super adorable, an absolute giant, and gives incredible hugs. His mom is out of the picture and always will be. I have two awesome cats, and I’m open to a dog or other critters.

I’m not looking for a mom for my kid or a housekeeper. To use the lingo of Burning Man, I seek a participant, not a spectator. I want an awesome equal partner to share life with. I want you to speak your mind, sweetly and kindly. I will hear you. I am capable of change and compromise.

You need to be physically fit and to me that means fitting into a size six or less - I’m aware that may be perceived as shallow but it isn’t hypocrisy, I’m fit and slender too. Please let me be the judge of your beauty. I’ve lost count of the women who tell me that they see themselves as unattractive when to me they are simply beautiful. If you have kids, I will love them as my own, teach them what I know and be their steward.

I am going to want to see a SFW picture of you pretty quick and I will reciprocate. Then I’m going to want to move quickly to voice, then video, then in person if we hit it off. If you’re not local to Portland, Oregon you will need to relocate.

I know people make shit up all the time, but this is for real. Let’s build incredible worlds and unforgettable experiences! Reach out to me. I will take the lead.