I really want to get to know you, I want to be friends as well as whatever else we become. I want to make you smile and laugh and tell you interesting stories... and have you do all the same.

Me: - 57, Married, and Polyamorous - I have been a Dom since I was 16 - I added Daddy to my repertoire when I was 40 - I am an engineer (software and electronics) - I like to describe myself as avuncular - I love conversation and getting to know you - I am a flexible Dom, I adapt to your needs and kinks. I can be very gentle, or crazy rough - I am looking for something longer term, not just a fling - Some of my kinks (none of which are requirements): - Impact play (I am told I give a great spanking) - Giving orders and tasks, bondage - Various forms of sensation play - Giving anal - CNC - Limits: - Scat - Blood and other fluids - Soft limits may come up as we explore

You: - Are willing and happy to verify within the first 48 hours, this is not optional - Understand that sharing pictures and videos (after you feel comfortable) is a part of this - Are emotionally mature - Like a good conversation as well as play - Know your kinks, or can tell me what you want to explore - Understand that communication is the core of BDSM - Want to stand up for and advocate for your needs - Tell me the name of your favorite song when you reply.

After all that, what can I say? I love to read and learn, I watch too much TV, and I love pop culture. I don't game as much as I like, but if you do I want to know everything! I love talking and conversation, and learning about what the people I care about know. I wrote a novel a while back, and if you look at my profile you can see I sometimes write BDSM erotica.

What are you waiting for, introduce yourself!

PS:To get a taste of what I can be like, here are a couple of lightly fictionalized versions of things I have done:

• Nice (MDom) (D/s) (Anal)
• 90% True (MDom) (Huml) (CNCish)