When you hear Singaporean, most people assume me to be ethnically Chinese but I'm not I belon to a very small demographic of people living there which are Singaporean Indians who have migrated over from Malaysia or other parts of the world. Here's my story, I am from an Indian household where men are treated like royals. The lvivng costs in Singapore was extremely why for my parents so we decided to move into a house together with my aunties. The women outnumber the men in the house for 4:10. Hence, I am used to growing up with older women being at the center of pretty much all of my life. My mom and aunties have taught me love, compassion, care and alot of meaningful things. I am also not a problematic kid as in I do not engage in anything detrimental to my career or future. You could say I was a goody two shoes. Eventually my parents were much well to do and we moved out to our own house. My dating life has been rather a boring because I dated a couple of very immature girls throughout mylate teens and early twenties. I did not find their erratic nature and neurotic personalities attractive at all but held up with it because of love. However that did come back to bite me in the ass. I have been single for a couple of years now and I've gone on multiple dates with women who are around my age and came to a damning conclusion. Most of them are extremely annoying in nature, they have unrealistic expectations and also are very materialistic.Then I realised that I have always found older women more attractive due to my upbringing. Not only that, the movies I watch, the people I generally find attractive, my preferences in appearance has also been influenced by it too. Ultimately, I have found out that I've always been into older women.

Me:- -Singaporean Indian - 6'1 in height - Somewhere at 80kg I'm somewhat average sized. - Black hair, got a beard - Not a vegan or a vegetarian - I expect sensuality, pleasantness, kindness and compassion from you. We could be friends first to talk about who we are and understand each other on a deeper level. - I'm very vanilla when it comes to sex but wouldn't mind exploring other areas of kink. Obviously I'm not into pegging or stuff like that. - I have a car and can drive to you. -Im an engineer so I'm pretty busy but I will make time for you to text or meetup if time allows me. -I'm seeking for caring individual who will be monogamous to me. I'm free from any STI'S or STD's so expect the same from you. Hygiene is a non negotiable. - I love sensual moments like cuddling that turn steamy real quick.

You:- - Curvy and thick is fine but not obese. I dont mind some extra pounds as I believe we are all humans and there are imperfections to us but obese is not for me. - STD/STI free. - Able to host or we could be adventurous and go on a 'ride' in the car. - Compassionate, sensual, kind softie. - Could be of any ethnicity. I dont mind. - Free to meet irl at least once a week.

I think I've stated out every possible thing I could on here. This is the first time I'm opening up about my interest in older women so I hope I am not met with any judgement. If you are interested, please drop me a message and I promise you that it will be a worthwhile experience. Let's hope I find my valentine here.