I’m very diverse in many ways, very successful in life and business. As you will see as we talk I take things serious and have nothing to hide, honest and transparent from the start. I can host, live in a second home on the lake or can get hotel room in Tulsa area. I’m looking for a Friends with Benefits type situation when the wife is not around, she lives and works from our primary home in Washington State most of the year.

I am a southern gentleman in all areas in life… here’s some things about me….

I was raised in a 1950 type household. My father taught me from a young age to be successful in business through hard work and life as a strong young man with a Dominant personality. Just be serious and not waste my time nor will I waste yours…I do own a second home 3br, 2 bath home in NE Oklahoma on Ft Gibson Lake (40 miles East Tulsa Oklahoma). I own a humble successful but small nationwide business...have a lot of time when I’m home and not traveling for work or not attending family functions as I can set my own hours and schedule. I'm looking for a playful sexually open female partner who is seriously looking for a Dynamic with an awesome older, experienced Dominant.

My experience as a Dominant is extensive. I don't do online very long. I want to meet in person quickly so I know your real or a scammer and not catfishing me which has been a real issue in the past year looking for potential play partners. I don’t trust online conversations nor do I take anything seriously until I meet someone in person. I don’t have a problem sharing my phone number after I know your real and serious. I’m financially secure and independent if that matters to you? I’m not after anything but a good time without complications. I’m past the party stage in my life so I don’t drink or do hard drugs. I have a wonderful life and not looking to change mine or yours, I’m very much independent but like company when I travel and in life. The relationship I’m in is non existent and it’s lonely when I have no play partners. I fish, hike, hunt, camp out, ski, these are just a few of the things I love to do. I live in a very rural area on a lake and can go days without human interaction, if I wanted. Perfect for a night, weekend getaway or a week of learning about alternative sexual pleasures but please be somewhat discreet and no drama. I’m an indigenous artist and possess two Grad Degrees, MPA (The Evergreen State College, Tribal Administration) and MPH Masters in Public Health (Portland State) and “sapiosexual” and intelligence along with deep intelligent conversations turn me on. Here is an opportunity to live and learn with a highly experienced caring, loving, compassionate and intelligent Dominant man where your sexual submission is appreciated…and earned.

My wife and partner for over 30 years lives in a location on the West Coast where we have lived and worked raising a family. I was raised and born in Tulsa Oklahoma and returned to help take care of my ailing mother and operate my family business. In other-wards I am living in my second home away from my partner. I CAN HOST….Assets...I bring to a dynamic…Honest. Kind, Fun, Understanding. Compassionate. Educated, Knowledgeable. Real, Strong. Available. Intelligent. Teacher, Open-minded. Respectful. Dominant, Adventurous. Playful ALWAYS...A man’s man. Hope we chat or spend some time together sometime soon. Pics get mine in return, I’m in great shape for my age and hope you are to… I’m 6’ 1” and weight 220lbs. I have several forms of reliable transportation and will travel to meet the right submissive woman, but know I’m serious and expect same from a potential partner.