Generically he is very unselfish, makes you put it in your mouth and when he's ready to go it's one or two positions. Then when he's done, many times he has no energy for you. You want lots of oral and him lasting a long time, but it rarely happens. Like many females, you're probably tired of the male who totally ignores your needs and just races to the finish line leaving you very disappointed, angry or to the point (if its not your husband) of just wanting to ditch him because he's clueless. Unlike men you need an attentive male who will slowly get you excited, one who enjoys foreplay, lots of oral and who will go down on you for an hour or more at times to let you enjoy the multiple orgasms you deserve and crave. Plus when he penetrates you, you desire multiple rounds at times and much more than 15 minutes and done.  If that is your situation, then perhaps you should drop me a line and lets chat.

For my age, I am a young looking older white male posting in the hope of meeting a woman (any ethnic background or body type) for some consensual fun. Per my preface, you have needs that are not being met and want to try something different. I am wide open particularly if you are seeking to experiment and expand your horizons with an older male. At my age I trust you realize why I am posting on here (neglected but other contributing older age reasons too). Sexually I am wide open, very oral, long lasting, thick cut mushroom head (which lasts and is in excellent working condition too) and groomed. I do not smoke, am well educated and also do not drink nor take drugs.

I am not seeking romance or to date. What I seek is a sex buddy and a friend too. One time play is okay, but ongoing is even better.

As for me I am 6 feet tall, 200, not single, well educated, can host at a motel or come to you. Ideally you are over 30 but if you are younger than 30 and truly like and feel totally comfortable with much older men you can respond too, but be over 19. I would definitely meet you as long as you are experienced.

I'm looking forward to hearing from someone ;). At my age, I still have a pulse, a raging libido and want to meet a nice lady into men my age.

You can be local or even someone who visits NY regularly on business and desire someone to give you what you are not getting at home. While you love him, life is short. While you have no desire to leave, you want your needs to be satisfied. Since he has not changed, you've concluded that he's incapable of satisfying you, which brought you to searching for the right male to fill this part of your life at the current time.