TL:DR Are you wondering how much more fulfilling life might be when joining an existing relationship? We do, it's new for us and we hope to find you: an open-minded young woman who wants to explore and develop this together with me (🇮🇩 mom) and my lovely 🇳🇱 husband. Respect and communication is key!

Hi, thank you for opening our post! Oh, first a little note for the males here who prefer to ignore the FM4F part, we've made a special message for you 😈 Females can read on 😇

We (well, mom came up with this idea first, which was and still is quite a surprise for dad) have found ourselves wondering what it would mean to us if we bring someone else into our intimate life. So we're looking for you, a single young woman 🦄 Preferably you have no experience with couples just like us having no prior experience with having a third person into our relationship, although we might make an exception if you have done this once or twice before and are willing to explore further. This is something we haven't done before and we're honestly curious if all (ours and yours) lives will be even better when you join us.

While we're also searching for someone to ultimately be intimate with, we don't want it to be only revolving around that. Of course we'll have to find out if there's a match between us, if we also get along outside the bedroom (we certainly hope so!). If everything goes positively, we would love this to be something ongoing.

We don't care for your background, we're an interracial couple ourselves and we welcome someone who's roots are both from here or any other part of the world. As for appearance, dad is 182cm tall, has a bit of a dad bod (obviously I would almost say 😅 ), 88kg, Caucasian (Dutch) with brown hair and blue eyes. Mom is 143cm tall, hwp, Asian (Indonesian) with brown eyes and black hair.

Obviously we hope and intend it'll lead to something IRL, we're not looking for an online affair. We're from Rotterdam ourselves. Where you live is not important as long as you're able to meet us. Easiest is within The Netherlands of course, like South Holland or any of the nearby provinces(*) for easy meeting. Still a bit further away like Belgium or Germany is also possible, just keep in mind if it's realistically possible for you to travel to us. For safety reasons, both yours and ours, meeting each other for the first time will be somewhere in public.

We do have some limits though:

• Keep it legal 🔞
• Be clean. Not just basic hygiene, but most importantly no std's
• We absolutely don't like smoking. So if you do, we're sorry but we're not interested 🚭
• Be able to verify through videocall 📲 If you're not willing, please don't message us since we'll just assume you're not who you say you are (too many guys tried and failed already)
• You'll have to do with our profile picture. If you want to see more of us, just wait until we're all ready for a videocall. See ⬆
• Be able to meet relatively soon, it's no use when you're a continent away and only thinking to visit sometime months away
• We're not into sexting, at least not before we've met (maybe not after meeting either, we're really here for real life contacts)

Other limits, both yours and ours, we'll talk about as we get to know each other. We will always respect those! When you're interested, just let us know and we'll take it from there.

O ja, wij spreken ook Nederlands 😁

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(*) To name some places which are within a relatively easy distance from us:

Aalsmeer, Alblasserdam, Alphen aan den Rijn, Amersfoort, Amsterdam, Barendrecht, Bergschenhoek, Berkel en Rodenrijs, Bleiswijk, Bodegraven, Boskoop, Breda, Breukelen, Brielle, Capelle aan den IJssel, Delft, Den Haag/The Hague, Dordrecht, Driebergen, Gouda, Gouderak, Haastrecht, Hellevoetsluis, Hendrik-Ido-Ambacht, Hoofddorp, Houten, Krimpen aan den Lek, Krimpen aan den IJssel, Leiden, Leiderdorp, Leidschendam, Lekkerkerk, Maassluis, Monster, Moordrecht, Naaldwijk, Nieuwegein, Nieuwerkerk aan den IJssel, Nootdorp, Oud-Beijerland, Oudewater, Ouderkerk aan den IJssel, Papendrecht, Portugaal, Pijnacker, Reeuwijk, Rhoon, Ridderkerk, Rijswijk, Sassenheim, Schiedam, Schoonhoven, Sliedrecht, Spijkenisse, Uithoorn, Utrecht, Vlaardingen, Voorburg, Voorschoten, Waddinxveen, Wassenaar, Woerden, Zevenhuizen, Zeist, Zoetermeer, Zwijndrecht