Why am I writing this? I believe there is someone out there reading this right now who will make us both happy by taking the next step in a journey with me. I am the right person for someone out there reading this. And one of you is the right person for me.

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When google maps gives you directions you just follow it one step at a time to get where you’re going. You don’t have to know the whole complicated route. By the same token, we will accomplish a whole lifetime of complicated and wholesome and meaningful things encompassed by just taking things one step at a time. I think I will find someone out here who is ready to take step after step with me.

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What’s in it for you? Around me you will feel safer. You will trust me and commit to me. The safety that you feel being with me will make you feel less stressed and you’ll become healthier as a result. It will be like taking a pebble out of your shoe that’s always been there, and with it gone you’ll be able to run distances you couldn’t have imagined before, just because of the simple change of the pebble being gone. Having me is safety in the short term and the long term, because our kids will keep us company in our old age and care for us. Honouring their mother and father.

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Any guy could protect you and make you feel safer right? Why is it me? From my experience being single, there’s a sense of longing when you are alone. We don’t have unlimited time on earth to date, and if you wait too long you might never end up with anybody. But there are also some very specific reasons why I’m a great catch. I’ll share some of them with you unashamedly. I have a higher income than three-quarters of employed men in Canada. I’m 5’11.5, almost the golden 6’ mark. I’m handsome – ish. I’ll put a photo somewhere on my profile so you can confirm.

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You’re thinking I’m worth messaging. That’s the next step. However other girls who aren’t the right girl are messaging as well. So to make things easier for them, here’s why you should not message, because the person who will make you feel safe and happy isn’t me.

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- you’re mean

- you’re married

- you’re not caucasian

- you have health concerns including mental health issues or obesity

- you’re older than 34 (ideally you’re below 30)