42 [M4F] #UK #England - Soft Gentle Dom / Master Seeking a sub or slave

The reason for my post, is to find a suitable sub or slave. I can take care of, nurture and help to become the best sub or slave possible. Also one that I can develop and grow with. I am very new to all this which inclued bdsm and being a Dom or Master. I am looking to grow and develop. If you are experienced in this world, I welcome you to make contact and if you are not, I welcome you to make contact.

I am not looking to get right into the sub and slave dynamic straight away. It is very important to me to get to know you and for you to get to know me. To know and understand you is very important to me as that forms a big part of how we develop into the Dom and sub or Master and slave dynamic. I place a huge importance on getting into your head. For me, the psychologicaly part to these dynamics and the bdsm world is just as rewarding as the emotional, sexual and physical sides.

I have noticed there are a lot of posts on here, that seek an online arrangement. That does nothing for me and does not suit me. Touch is very important to me along with learning things about you, exploring with one another whilst in each others company. I am seeking someone who will want to meet and take things from there.

I am a very patient person and will not rush you. I want you to feel safe with me, just as much I feel safe with you. This makes sure that the best is then gained. I choose for us to chat online on Reddit firstly and when we both feel we want. We can move off Reddit Chat onto another platform. I will expect verification quite quickly from you and I will do the same. This can include a above the waist clothes photo with your username on a piece of paper.

I am new to the BDSM world and have no prior experience being a Dom or Master for anyone. I have had an interest in this field for a long time and now just seeing what can happen and see if I can get to match with a suitable person to then be able to explore and gain the experience within a meaningful relationship.

My style is very, kind, caring, compassionate, soft, gentle. Which could suit a Daddy Dom dynamic but there are things that put me off the little things. I may consider a Middle.

My preference is to have a relationshipt first before anything bdsm is explored, mental and emotional connection is paramount to me. As I am Demisexual.

I am definitely interested in something long term with a suitable person that can invest in me and I in them. This would mean investing in me - emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually and I will do the same with you.

Here are some of my Big NO's that I will not be compatible with: -

• If you are a Brat then I am not suited to you.
  
• If you are a Masochist I am not for you.
• If you are a little, I am not for you.

Here are some of my kinks and fetishes that I have and would want to carry out on YOU :

• Orgasm Control - Forced Orgasm - Orgasm Denial - Edging - Praise - Affection - Pain in terms of biting (I love biting) - Training - Rules and Tasks - Discreet Public Play - Anal - Nipple Play - TPE - 1950s -

Here are some kinks and fetishes that i would want carried out on ME :

• Cock Worship - Edging - Anal Stretching - Nipple Play - Nipple Orgasm - Servitude - Rimming - Eating My Ass Out -
  

The kinks and fetishes that I have listed above are not limited to what I have written. I am very open to exploring a lot more and trying a lot more. I just wanted to give you a little information on what I like and what I would like you to also want to do or be interested in.

Here are some details about myself: I am 42, 5ft 11 inches, average build, hairy chest, olive skin that is tanned, oval face, brown eyes, dark hair (Mohawk Style) salt and pepper beard or sometimes just stubble. I am very chilled out person, who is pansexual, demisexual, polyamorous, vegan / vegetarian, peaceful, soft, gentle, kind, caring, loving, secure, calm, considerate, lone wolf and so much more.

I live in the South East of England.

Thank you for reading. If anything I have noted appeals to you. Do reach out with a chat request.