The reason for my post, is to find a suitable sub or slave. That I can take care of and nurture and help to become the best sub or slave possible but also one that I can develop and grow with. I am very new to all this but looking to grow and develop. If you are experienced in this world I welcome you to make contact and if you are not. I welcome you to make contact.

I am not looking to get right into the sub and slave dynamic straight away. It is very important to me to get to know you and for you to get to know me. To know and understand you is very important to me as that forms a big part of how we develop into the Dom and sub or Master and slave dynamic. I place a huge importance on getting into your head. For me the psychologicaly part to these dynamics and the bdsm world is just as rewarding as the emotional and sexual sides.

I have noticed there are a lot of posts on here that seek an online arrangement and that does nothing for me as touch is also very important to me along with learning things about your and exploring with one another whilst in each others company. So I am seeking someone who will want to meet and take things from there.

I am a very patient person and will not rush you. I want you to feel safe with me just as much I feel safe with you. This makes sure that the best is then gained. I choose for us to chat online on Reddit firstly and when we both feel we want to. We can move off Reddit Chat onto another platform. At a minimum I expect you to have a profile that is "Email Verified" if you don't. Then please don't contact me.

I am new to the BDSM world when it comes to experience but have had an interest in it for a long time.

My style is very, kind, caring, compassionate, soft and gentle. I'm not looking to harm you. Though we could discuss things regarding some of my kinks and fetishes over time.

I am not keen to have a 24 / 7 arrangement as I want to have a life outside of this. So if you need someone 24 / 7 then I am not for you.

I am definitely interested in something long term with a suitable person that can invest in me and I in them. This would mean investing in me - emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually and I will do the same with you.

I consider interactions that are based on a connection to be far more suitable and satisfying over not having a connection. I seek to create and develop a connection and I would want you to also be on the same page regarding this.

I welcome enquiries from anyone. Regardless of gender. I am open to all genders but my preference is a female born at birth.

I have a few big NO's that I can not cater for: -

• If you are a Brat then I am not suited to you.
  
• If you are a Sadist I am not for you.
• If you are a little, I am not for you.
• If you can not follow directions, I am not for you.

When making contact with me. Please provide details about : - Age - Gender - Location - Kinks - Fetishes - Hard Limits

Your kinks and fetishes and hard limits are key for me to find out how suitable you are to me and I to you. Some of your kinks and fetishes and hard limits may not align to mine so it is very important to know this at the begining so that it allows you to find a suitable person and it allows me to find a suitable person.

Here are some details about myself: I am 42, 5ft 11 inches, average build, hairy chest, olive skin that is tanned, oval face, brown eyes, dark hair (Mohawk Style) salt and pepper beard or sometimes just stubble. I am very chilled out person, who is pansexual, demisexual, polyamorous, vegan / vegetarian, peaceful, soft, gentle, kind, caring, loving, secure, calm, considerate, lone wolf and so much more.

Thank you for reading. If anything I have noted appeals to you. Do reach out with a chat request or message.