Looking to connect with someone on a natural level where neither of us feel like we're forcing anything, would be into meeting for a coffee, cocktail or tasty bite.

People say l'm sweet and understanding. Also I give great massages!

Love cooking, walks in the park, wine nights and spending as many evenings laughing with friends as possible. I'm a very easy to get along with guy who is great at communicating honestly. I don't play around with people and get along best with other honest and open people who can be vulnerable. You can basically tell me about anything, I'm a good supportive confidant.

I'm poly, partnered and dating solo. Not looking for a third. I'm usually free at least once or twice a week. Can host and have overnights.

I drive so a little distance is okay.

I work from home or I'm in midtown otherwise.

How I look:

Well kept beard, Thick rimmed black glasses. Nice strong arms. 5'8 (actually) I like to work out and keep myself in fairly good shape. Will send sfw pictures when you feel ready to exchange them.

NSFW:

Into a lot but most of all enjoy light kink, then seeing and hearing my partner have a good time. Some more specific kinks are spanking, light choking, CNC, brats. I'm deeply into playing out my partner's favorite fantasies if it's within my limits. Into kissing, cuddling, teasing, passive play, pulling hair, using toys and hearing about all the things you like to do and any adventures you're having with other partners or have in the past.

Everyone loves sex and all but I'm very patient and hate the idea of pushing anyone, even myself, too fast. I'm very happy with a slow burn to build anticipation.