Hi thank you for taking the time to read this post.
Who I am
- 61
- 5' 11"
- 220 lbs
- salt and pepper hair, beard
- Blue eyes
Well educated:
- Bachelors in Education
- Expert in 2 fields related to Information Technology
- Graphic design
Well Traveled:
- Europe
- South America
- Japan
- Malaysia
- All of Canada and U.S. (except Alaska, Hawaii, and the Canadian territories)
Good Communicator
- Been a public speaker, teacher for most of my life
Interests
- Photography
- Graphic Art
- Music, I play 12 string guitar
- Singing
- Cooking
Past Relationship Experience
- Married 30 years now divorced 7
- Have had 2 short term casual relationships, neither was to be LTR
- 30 Canadian Filipino - 2 years, she had to move
- 22 Canadian 3 months
Why A Younger Woman?
I have dated women my own age or closer to mine and have no problem doing so, however it seems that often it is younger women, for whatever reason, take an interest in me. Both of my previous relationships were initiated by them and progressed to intimacy at their desire.
These two experiences have caused me to really enjoy the dynamic of having a younger partner. I find the openness and their desire to learn from my experience in life to be one of the most amazing things I have ever had in a relationship. As well as their openness to share their world with me, which with the age difference is fascinating to me.
Although, of course there is an amazing sexual dynamic as well one thing that has been a real plus is how much more open they have been to discuss and experiment in this area. Also I find with my level of labido they are more able to keep up where with many women my age they are not very open to creativity and often do not like long sessions in the bedroom. I know there are exceptions but I have not found as good a match as I do with a younger woman.
What is my vision?
In a short term relationship it is pretty much a FWB type situation. I have found this although satisfying in some ways to not be as fulfilling as a girlfriend relationship. It is very erotic and passionate and when I have had this type of relationship we both are very satisfied from a erotic point of view, but I like to connect with my partner more than it seems women in a casual relationship want to connect, typically as they don't want to start feeling attached, which I understand. Having said that I am open to a short term and am perfectly able to be the older man you play with and act out your fantasies with.
In a long term relationship it would be a partnership of sharing. I would want to eventually live together and work at building a meaningful relationship on openness, honesty, trust. We both would contribute at whatever level we are capable to help each other. I don't expect equality in financial, obviously, but we both work at all the things that it takes to enjoy life together and being there for each other.
You Must Be
- Within 1 - 2 hrs of me or moving to my area, Burlington Ontario Canada.
- Willing to verify yourself in a reasonable way which means something like verifying yourself on a sub. eg. picture with crumpled up paper smoothed out with your user name written held up to your face with the date. I ask for this early on as there are so many fakes that just like to waste time. If you won't do this don't bother contacting me.
- Biological genetic female. I am not attracted sexually or romantically to any other type.
- Able to carry on a reasonable discussion
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- 1 year ago
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