My birthday was on last Monday so I'm a 19 year old freshman college student now. Both in my daily life and in social media, I find myself attracted to men who are much much older than me. Boys around my age never interests me anymore, I went out on dates couple of times with my peers but I really have no interest in them I don't feel anything towards them. But when a guy 40 walks past me I can't stop thinking about that person. Just that little, milliseconds long interaction is enough for me to daydream.

Personally the maturity is what draws me attracted to older men, both in physical appearance (the way their skin looks when they reach a certain age, the way they have "old" features in their face) and mental maturity.

I especially like academically established men. It's very important to me. I consider myself a bit of a sapiosexual. I don't want to spend time with a person who contributes nothing to my development, to the intellectual curiosity I have. I'd like a person with thoughts, and passions someone who can read between the lines, and someone who can see beyond what everyone else sees. I'd like to engage in many different intellectual conversations about life, death, science , art. So professors automatically seem so hot to me, but it's not necessarily a requirement to get in contact with me. You don't have to be a professor, but still have all those passion, curiousity and knowledge inside you.

Older men they're experienced, they can bring new insights to my own life experience. Since there are generational differences, there's a lot I can learn from them. And vice versa I think this kind of "learning from each other" is something mutual, and I'm sure I can bring new point of view to their thinking too. I like people from different countries, different backgrounds, different cultures.

I've also heard that they're better in bed 🤭 I'm still a virgin but I can perfectly understand why that could be true. With all the experience, they know what to do. And they dont act selfish and think of their own pleasure only, like most of genz guys are like so I want to be with an older man for my first time.

I'm a hardworking straight A's student who graduated high school as the valedictorian, and a person who's into very sick taboo kinks to the point where I get to feel like a worthless object. (although I consider myself a feminist irl, outside of fantasy) I like the dualities of a person lol

Lastly, I'm NOT looking for a one night stand thing, or friends with benefits, or a side piece, or a sug4r d4ddy/baby relationship. I'm looking for a real mutual connection, and a real relationship. Looking for a person to look up to, who knows what to do, who has sorted out a couple of things in life, who could guide me and help me, someone who would enjoy being like a dad to me when needed. I really like to be babied, taken care of . We can start talking online, and if we both like each other then I'm very open to meeting up irl. I'm actually very sick of online stuff, I want to have something real, something in person. But it's better to get to know the person online and then decide if I want to meet up with them, for safety reasons.

!!!!!!! I have huge dislike towards the traditional family roles, if you want that kind of relationship don't bother messaging me.!!!!!!