1. God loves me. (Always a good thing, right?)

2. I'm a handsome fella (and modest to boot! I'll let you be the judge of that though. The handsomeness, that is). I keep in shape.

3. I have a great sense of humor and you'll laugh a lot.

4. Terrific personality (Me, not you, I don't know you yet).

5. I’m hard working, successful and can provide.

6. I'm smart. (And not expressed in the "hey look at me" kinda way. Let's just say you'll be with someone who can carry on deep conversations, understand what you're saying and is intellectually curious about things). We’ll enjoy playful banter, every day chats and everything in between.

7. I'm not a clueless jerk.

8. Nor am I a pansy, pushover kinda guy.

9. I'm authentic. Real. Comfortable in my own skin.

10. I’m affectionate.

My hands will be all over you. Kisses, hugs, taking you by the hand, throwing an arm around you, wrapping you up tight from behind, slapping or grabbing your ass as I walk by. Yeah, all of it. Prepare yourself ;)

1. I believe you should love truly, with everything in you and nothing held back. Nobody wants a half-hearted love or someone who can't fully give themselves to you emotionally. I have very little to no emotional or mental baggage. Be the same.

2. I won't put you on a pedestal or put up with your crap.

That might bear repeating. I'll like you (love you, eventually?), understand you may have "crazy" days and I'll handle it just fine, but don't think you're getting away with the cake and eating it too. I'm getting my piece, thank you very much.

So sit you're fine behind (it is fine, right?) down and don't get too out of hand. Act right. Be a lady.

1. I'm playful and love to cut up.

2. I'm serious when necessary. I can handle life, navigate its challenges, and take care of business. I’ll be your rock to lean on. You’ll have stability and strength in me.

3. I'm a Christian. (And don't read anything into this being #15 on the list. God is first in my life).

4. I like a healthy balance of staying in and going out. It's great to do both.

5. I communicate well and will understand you. As much as possible, anyway. Because you're a woman, incredibly unique and special (and annoying as hell sometimes), they’ll be those looks of "what in the world was she thinking?!" but overall, I'll "get" you.

At the very least, we'll know where each other stands, even if we disagree. And there's always time for you to come around to my point of view ;-)

1. I’ll lead you. And be your head and authority.

I believe in traditional gender roles and the man being the head of the wife. You’ll always have influence with me. Share your thoughts and opinions. Give me feedback. Work with me as a valued partner. You’ll be heard.

But when I give a decision, you support and follow it. Be naturally obedient or submissive.

1. I'm committed and faithful.

Which is kinda crazy to have to say, but in this day and age, maybe it should be mentioned. I won't be checking out your sister, or banging your best friend (even if they are hot), or any other attractive woman we may be around so I can run off with her at the first chance.

You get a guy who doesn't need commitment and faithfulness to be defined and you can be secure that if I decide to be with you, then I'm with you. Period. I expect the same.

1. I have plenty of testosterone flowing through me.

I like to win. I'm ambitious. I have a high sex drive. Etc, etc.

1. I’m healthy and fit.

2. I’m single.

3. I don’t have kids. Open to them if we want to expand our family.

4. Never married. Came close twice. Things ended amicably. Feel free to ask.

5. Speaking of the “M” word, we won’t be eloping next week. Maybe never. You could be a stalker for all I know and half crazy. Actually, I like a little crazy if it's the good kind.

Whether we're best friends, perfect for each other and can't get any better than the two of us, we won't speed things up or slow things down.

We'll see what develops and where it takes us. It'll be fun. And exciting, I’m sure. And yes, plenty of “average” days mixed in. Not every day is a “mountain top” experience, so be a well rounded, mature woman with reasonable expectations.

So...

What about you?

Here's what I'm looking for:

To give a very wide range, be between the ages of 18 to 33.

You're very attractive and fit/slender/athletic/petite body. One of those body types.

You have a good or great personality and sense of humor.

You're single and very faithful and committed in a relationship.

You’re honest to a fault.

Playful, yet serious when necessary.

You’re naturally obedient/submissive.

Most importantly, have a personal relationship with God.

This is a good start. We'll fill in the details later.

Message me. Tell me about yourself, your interests and what you're looking for.

If I think we'll be a great fit, I'll reply back.

Make sure you include some recent pics of you. I have plenty to send of me. It's not the most important thing, but that initial attraction helps a lot.

Here's to seeing where things go!