Looking to connect with someone a little before getting deeper, would be into meeting for a coffee, cocktail or tasty bite.

I'm told l'm very sweet and understanding. Also I give great massages apparently but I hate to toot my own horn. Love cooking, walks in the park, wine night. I'm a very easy to get along with guy whos good at communicating. I don't play games with people and get along best with other very honest and open people. You can basically tell me about anything, I'm a good supportive confidant.

I'm poly, partnered and dating solo. Not looking for a third. I'm usually free at least once or twice a week. Can host and have overnights. I also drive so a little distance is okay. I work from home or I'm in midtown otherwise.

How look: Well kept beard, Thick rimmed black glasses. Nice strong arms. 5'8 (actually) like to work out and keep myself in fairly good shape but that's not an expectation have from everyone :) Will send sfw pictures when we chat!

Into a lot but most of all enjoy soft domination and seeing my partner have a good time. I'm very into playing out a partner's favorite fantasies if it's within my limits. Into kissing, cuddling, and teasing, pulling hair, using toys and hearing about all the things you like to do.

Everyone loves sex and all but I'm very patient and hate the idea of pushing anyone, even myself, too fast. I'm very happy going slow.