Hi there, nice meeting you. I live in North Carolina the Charlotte area and I have compiled information about me that I think you’ll find helpful. Hopefully this helps you decide if we are compatible. So here it goes, I know it’s long but I hope you take the time to read it.

DISCLAIMER: NO ONE NIGHT STANDS/HOOK UPS, NO GOLD DIGGERS, ABSOLUTELY NO INVESTMENT SEEKERS, CRYPTOCURRENCY, FREELANCERS, SUGAR BABIES, NO SELLERS OF ANY KIND ESPECIALLY O.F. GIRLS! I WILL NOT DISCUSS FINANCES AT ALL ONLINE AND IF YOU DO THEN YOU WILL BE BLOCKED!

I am a 49yr old divorced (15yr marriage), conservative, traditional man who is a practicing Christian and requires my future wife to be Christian as well. And NO, being Christian does not mean a boring bedroom! I just don’t do evil junk like pee, feces or blood type stuff. I do not understand why people think this…?

I am drawn to guidance and being someone my woman can come to for all things! I desire to be depended on as I desire to have someone I depend on for my needs. And that’s depend NOT Dependent!

And if you are handicapped, quirky, nerdy, different, don’t count yourself out, I believe personality can make you beautiful (it can also make you ugly) and I am open minded for the most part. I do however have one hang up which is I am NOT attracted to large women, HOWEVER a few extra pounds is fine. Please don’t bash me I am just being honest. We all have our attractions and you may like extremely fit muscular guys and I wouldn’t hate on you for having your own desires!

As for children I have adult children none live with me and I am sterile. That said though I cannot produce children I also no longer possess the desire to have or raise more children at almost 50yrs old. If you wish to have children then I wish the very best for you and I would never want to take that opportunity away from any woman so please understand my position in not wanting any young children in the relationship.

I am allergic to cats and I LOVE my dog whom you would have to share my heart with!

I am mixed race if that matters, I have a great career, and though I am perfectly fine, being the sole provider and protector in the relationship, I am nobodies cash cow! I am very loving and caring, but can also be stern. I am also respectful and require respect to be given in return. I am not a city guy. I will be buying some land in the country or mountains, and a new RV to live in on that land. I do, however, like to visit the city and experience new restaurants and areas of interest. I also like beaches very much. The Caribbean is one of my favorites for a vacation spots.

My desire is that I can start talking to someone and take our time building a friendship until it blossoms into us making the next move. That said, I would like to trade pics sooner rather than later while looks aren’t everything I personally need to be attracted to my future wife. Also, I will require proof of who you are as well as proving myself to you so that means when we move from this platform, we will be moving to Skype or telegram. There we can continue texting and we will video call to show each other proof of ourselves. We can also go on video dates and things like that to get to know each other if we do not live near each other. And we can do this until we actually meet in person. If you do not have Skype or Telegram, I ask that you download one of the two to keep this conversation going. I have picked specifically those two because all others have very low security and are easily compromised. Please be willing to download these as this little bit that I ask, could show reflection as to what you’re willing to do in a relationship.

Here are some deal breakers for me: Smoking Heavy alcohol Drugs Always a Jealous/Suspicious nature Gold digging Independent minded Manipulative people Social media, addicts or sellers Liberalism Fake people Oh… and cannibals! Those people crazy!! Lol

I want the “real” you! I don’t care about makeup and high fashion clothing, I want to know and see the woman in sweats no makeup messy hair and puffy morning face! Just want to see the real person behind the done up pictures.

There’s something else that’s very important to me in a relationship and that his emotional and physical intimacy. To give you just a little bit of background on that, I was in a 15 year marriage where the other person did not feel that these two elements were required or that it was a task/reward/treat to give me. So just to let you know that these two elements are very much required, and without trying to sound vulgar, I do have a very high sexual drive and in all honesty I truly WANT to crave my woman in that way and I hope she would want that as well! So I need my future wife to understand that I will not live in a relationship that is starving for emotional and physical intimacy. This is a dealbreaker, and not to mention, very much so something that can ruin any marriage in the future. But I do just want to stress that this is a very important subject to me, and I hope that you understand the magnitude of it!

Now, if you were determined enough to make it this far I applaud you and thank you. I want you to mention in your message that my favorite bird is an eagle, can you guess which one in particular?

I know there is already a lot and still more to come but these are some of what I consider important. As I said I know it’s a lot of information but I don’t like investing days, weeks or months talking to someone covering everything here, only to find out that they are incompatible and it was all wasted time. Who wants to have their time wasted? I don’t and I don’t want to waste yours either.

Ok there it is now let’s see if you think I may be compatible for you.