I’m looking for someone who has a similar mindset as me - someone who is looking for a relationship that has a good element of wild kink/bdsm dynamics, but also is very stable and healthy; where we grow together and support each other. A best friend who is also a lover as well as a submissive..perfection.

I’ll start with the fun stuff, seeing as compatibility in bdsm is what we’re all here for! Kinks-wise, I like bondage, light impact play, toys, edging/teasing (receiving/giving), throat training, anal (have to at least be open to trying it), lingerie, “daddy” (no age regression), dirty talk/sexting, collar/leash, and maybe a few others. As far as what I have not tried but would like to try or would be willing to discuss: exhibitionism/voyeurism, semi-public play, sharing, threesomes, cuckolding (to others, unless you want to see me get jealous and rip you away from him :p), and light free use (we would discuss boundaries and time frames when this is acceptable).

As a dom I am balanced, but tend to skew on the soft side. I’m more of a fan of pleasure and not much into physical pain - outside of a red bottom and maybe a little bruise at the back of the throat haha. When it comes to punishment, I much prefer the mental aspect. I may be a sweet dom, but don’t think I’ll hesitate to punish if you’re out of line! I do love the challenge that comes with occasional brattiness. Make me sweat and jealous before I remind you who you belong to and you remind me why I’m the luckiest man on planet earth ;). I also love spontaneity and a bit of creativity, sure you might be my sub, but all relationships are a dance of sorts. So dance with me!

If we passed the kink compatibility check, then let’s talk about the actual relationship part. Communication is everything, I am very open and honest (even when I know it might get me in trouble), I expect the same in return. I want to feel like I can come to you with anything and vice versa. I’d love to go on dates often, eventually travel together when we’re ready, meet each others friends and family (who have no idea how freaky we get in the bedroom), I’d love to cook together, have hobbies together. At the same time though, we can be apart and have our own lives too. Go out with the girls Saturday night! Stressed because of a big exam? No worries, I’ll make you dinner and fuck the stress out of you and then leave you to it and go do my own thing! I want something built around mutual respect, loyalty, honesty and empathy. The stability that comes from it will take the sex that is already mind blowing and make it other worldly.

With that, let’s get to the basics! Physically, I am 6’ tall (182cm), I have green eyes and wavy, dark brown hair, I am white (I have a little bit of tan), and I have an athletic build (168lb, 76kg). I am happy to send you pictures and I’d appreciate if you’d be open to exchanging them early as I do think physical attraction is important!

Currently I work as a software engineer (although my job has turned into more managing stuff these days). I’m fully remote, but I’m transitioning to hybrid so I will be moving to Philly in a few months. Outside of work, I have a lot of hobbies such as guitar, snowboarding, cooking/baking, photography, and hiking/camping. I love to read, travel, and learn new things. I am learning Spanish (also if you have a native language and we end up together, I will 100% put the work into learning). I sometimes brew beer and I’m dabbling with woodworking. DDF (besides occasional weed).

If I caught your attention, please feel free to reach out! Bonus points if you tell me your favorite color so I know you read all of this lol. Looking forward to hearing from you :).

                            - Your Potential Future Dom