Hi there! My name is Ben and I'm a 33 year old trans man and ABDL/Little Boy. I'm looking for my forever partner, someone to fall in love with, get married to and build a life together.

I'm a very talkative guy, I love getting to know people and see what makes them tick. I also love showering those that I care about in affection. I double text. I triple text, even. Warning you now, I am a talker and I'm looking for someone who can hold a conversation, enthusiastically even!

I hate feeling like I'm pulling teeth trying to continue a conversation with someone. We have all been there, it feels like you're talking to a brick wall and the person won't just admit their disinterest. None of that for me, thanks!

I'm really interested in the occult and paganism and that sort of stuff. But I also flip flop a ton about whether or not I actually believe any of it. Still, I have tarot cards, crystals, and at the end of the day it's at least interesting. I'm an Aquarius if that means anything to you, I think astrology is fun.

I'm a writer, if you couldn't tell. I keep trying to make these shorter but that never really works out.

I guess I'll get some deal breakers out of the way, I am monogamous and child free. I want to be a stay-at-home little boy eventually, I smoke weed medicinally and recreationally, I have Social Anxiety Disorder and Depression that are medicated, and I have two cats that I love beyond words.

To elaborate on the stay-at-home little boy topic, I know it's not everyone's thing but I have always wanted to be a househusband. The idea of getting to center my life's focus on making my Mommy or Daddy as happy as I can just sets my soul on fire. It really lights up every part of my being, the idea of belonging so completely to another and having them reinforce my littleness/submission at every opportunity.

I'm heavy into this stuff, if you couldn't tell. I'm looking for a partner that needs a 24/7 D/s and ABDL dynamic because I know those are things I really need. I'm a diaper lover and would love for that to be incorporated into daily tasks/rules. I need a dominant that can genuinely guide me and take care of me. I would love to be permanently collared one day. I can't wait to wear someone's collar with pride.

Little me is anywhere from 0-4 though I usually skew lower. I'm a big cuddle bug and due to my ADHD when I regress or drop into subspace I tend to hyperfocus on my partner.

I haven't gotten to really be little with anyone in person before and would absolutely love to go to Disney and get to be small with a partner. Getting diaper checks or changed in the parks, getting told I have to hold Mommy or Daddy's hand so I don't get lost. There are just too many opportunities to be my genuine small self with someone there and I crave that experience. I'm located in Central Florida and have a Disney annual pass and go pretty often. I ride the baby rides and walk around to shop, that's basically it lol. I am NOT a thrill seeker.

I'm looking for a real partner who isn't afraid to communicate with me. I need someone who is emotionally mature and knows that communication is the only way a relationship will survive.

I'm open to long distance but there would need to be video calls/phone calls/visits before ever closing any distance. I'm a clingy baby, keep that in mind.

I have had people ghost me in the past, even in long term relationships so I get very nervous about prolonged silences. A heads up goes a long way for my anxiety.

All in all if I've piqued your interest, drop me a message. Write about yourself a little bit, sell yourself, you're great and you should tell me all about why you would be a great Mama or Dada for me!