Hello there!

I go by Lyanna, and I'm a plus sized 22-year-old with a deep love for books, sci fi, and art. I'm drawn to the wisdom and experience that older individuals often possess, which is why I'm on the lookout for a, father figure? fatherly mentor?

I possess a vibrant and outgoing personality. While you might spot me on TikTok and other platforms suited to my age, my true yearning lies in profound, meaningful conversations—something elusive in interactions with my peers.

Ideally, I'd love to connect with someone who has a background in academia, engineering, medicine, or teaching. Professors, doctors, engineers, the works. Extra points if you have children older than me.

When it comes to personality traits, I have a soft spot for individuals who might be described as cold, stern, overbearing, and those who, in general, have extremely high standards. If your kids would describe you with these words (or if they no longer speak to you) then you're precisely the type of mentor I'm seeking! If I'm being honest with you, at my core, I'm nothing more than a submissive girl who loves being told what to do and lives for praise and approval. I've always been told I have "potential" but I've never met the right person to force it out of me by demanding perfection.

I'm looking for something long-term, a connection that goes beyond just the surface. I want someone who I can chat with about books, and media and philosophy and art. Someone I can go to for life advice when I need it, someone who, imparts their wisdom on me. Someone who can mold me into the best version of myself. Someone I can make proud.

My ideal father figure would be Hannibal lecter, which sounds insane, and it is, but in my defense, if someone were as interesting and intelligent as him, I'd be more than willing to overlook their less than desirable flaws.

Please include your age and profession in your message to me, and describe what you're looking for in a partner/relationship.