Hey there, thanks for reading…I’m Nick. I’m greatly intrigued by the thought of an age gap relationship, and you may call me Captain Obvious. ;) To me there’s something erotic about developing a romantic connection with a significantly differently aged partner. It’s not just the physical aspects either (whether older or younger); it’s forging that bond with someone who inherently sees the world from a different perspective…it’s like seeing everything through a new set of eyes.

I’m 6’0”, 200lbs and have plenty of recent pics I’ll share once we’ve connected. I will be an empty nester as of June; given how fast 2023 has flown by it feels like it’ll be here tomorrow ha. Many hobbies; on chill days I love reading, scoping a good series or movie, gaming (video or board/card), and cooking. Bonus points if you dig the idea of cooking with a partner! Hibernate in the winter but love getting outside the rest of the year. Gardening, fishing, hiking, kayaking and river tubing are just some of the things I enjoy. If it’s mid 80’s on up I prefer to be in, on or at least near the water.

420 friendly and would dig a copilot on my jaunts to the U.P….it’s a beautiful drive with many good restaurants along the way. (It’d be cool if you were too but not a necessity so long as it’s a non issue from my end.) Enjoy a cocktail or two but rarely get lit unless I’m kicking it with my peeps. Speaking of drinks, I enjoy all “bar games” despite my variable skill levels haha.I don’t have a “type”...like obvi physical attraction must exist but for me it comes in myriad forms.

I’m a lowkey, no pressure kinda cat…trend old-fashioned when it comes to dating (almost went with “courting” for that old-fashioned cred lolllll). What I’m looking for can’t be forced and that’s not my style anyway. Honesty is incredibly important to me and all you’ll ever get FROM me. I will also do whatever you need to feel safe when meeting; such as giving my full name for any searches, meeting somewhere public, etc. It’s easy AF for a guy to be full steam ahead in terms of meeting, but I realize it’s a crazy ass time for single ladies and want you to be at ease when we do meet.

Sometimes I feel like my old-fashionedness works against me; so I want to be very clear that I’m an extremely sexual person…there have been points where I felt as if I erred too much on the side of caution when it comes to getting into the fun stuff. It’s only because I know how many unsolicited D pics and how much UNWANTED sex chat y’all receive. I’m very interested in exploring D/s dynamics (I’d be to the left of the slash), have very few limits and am a great kisser who is adept at giving orgasms (with a knack for edging). I can be your nurturer, your sadist or anything in between. I’m clean with up to date tests and I eat pussy from the back…so hopefully that’s enough to highlight I’m ready to discuss ANYTHING whenever you are. ;)

I’m so damn weary of swipe culture and all that comes with it; the ghosts, the flakes, the catfish, etc. I just wanna find my person but am unwilling to force a vibe that isn’t there. I’m kind, funny/witty, empathetic, sweet, strong, loving, smart(ish) lol. I want ALL of the good times, the big eventful adventures and lazy days together. I also want to be someone’s rock, who they can depend on when they’re down…the type who’ll make you homemade chicken noodle when you’re sick. Bonus points if you crave all of the relationship minutiae; the inside jokes, knowing each others’ thoughts with a glance, silly pet names, a booty slap when you pick something up near me, etc. There’s a magic in all of that, which took the longest lonely period of my life to truly appreciate.

Thanks again for taking the time to read all that; and if I don’t hear from you all the best…it’s rough AF being single out here.