Bismillah

I'm 35, and was a carer for a decade, before that had completed a couple masters degrees.

I'm very gifted at writing to persuade and to compel and pull the emotion out of people.

But adverts like this are about values. I need to push away people except those that are naturally pulled towards it.

Values: sufi Islam. Dad protection energy. Spiritually focused. Socially conservative, sexually liberal (selectively kink friendly within a polygynous framework) and fiscally liberal.(high in charity give generously, provision is from Allah though we may be facilitators/wusilla. But doesn't mean spending on just nonsense things).

What I offer: a coop partner that will rise to the occasion to be an excellent father, lover and husband and lead you to Jannah (heaven) in sha Allah. I don't just want you in this life I want you in the next. To see you and our future children develop and to inculcate excellent values that make them develop too. Be my biggest fan and I will show you the capacity Allah granted me to be a facilitator of his provision. To be the baby Daddy, to be that stabilizing influence you give the confidence too and so on. Also it goes without saying but you're going to feel the inside of your brain tongue licked when you commit to and demonstrate that you're on my team.

What I want in a wife: -compassionate honest loyal person with a skill to learn skills to serve better - open and accepting of my faith completely of her own rising interest and volition. I teach you for 6-12 months to prepare for the role of being a Muslim wife and having future Muslim children. - understands rizq and provision is from the Creator and may be facilitated through her husband but it doesn't have to be. - no sex before marriage nikah. Simple marriage. - is my tilth in the bedroom whatever I want and knows she will be satisfied. - is a virgin, or has had monogamous moments before me and will ask the creator for forgiveness for previously soul tying herself to people who did not respect her dignity. I make women cum with my words I know the process to get up to speed physically will be fast and easy for me because intimate sex is downstream from connection. - submissive but competent (defers to me but can take initiative when necessary) - my best fan. Understands my stress and neuroticism is towards protecting her and us and is a calming co-regulating influence - Good to my mum and has good family - is deeply prepared and wants to be a homeschool and educator for our future kids. No gaps in learning just teaching our kids the pro way to have good manners but still have excellent nuanced social skills and learn quickly at a high level through bespoke teaching. High school and university will be back to normal so teaching them is integral to prepare them for that. - modest and will only be privately exhibitionistic for me. - is fit for herself and keeps herself looking desireable for me in the way I want and to inspire me to do the same. - knows I will have the option to marry more wives and is okay with it because she's done the learning about Islam to know that equality of treatment is important.

If this makes you curious start talking with me today. I'm on UK timezone so consider that as well.