I’ve recently finished my degree and have moved to Utah for work. Much to my shame, I’m still a virgin after four years of school. I didn’t even go on that many dates during my college years. I don’t think of myself as shy per-say; I think I just haven’t been brave enough to take the initiative to pursue relationships when opportunities have presented themselves. Years of waiting for the right moment and being too critical of myself have led me to this stage. I hope that, at the very least, I’ll encounter some nice women through this sub who I can chat with and confide in. Of course, I’d love to find someone to lose my virginity to, especially someone who’s willing to be patient and excuse the nervousness I’ll no doubt feel at that moment.

I’m a redhead. I’m 5’11”, of a skinnier build, and somewhat muscular. I’d like to think that I’m handsome, but I’m probably about average on the scale of handsomeness. I’m a bit soft-spoken, but I’m not quite shy about conversing or sharing opinions. My areas of interest include history, film, pop culture, investing, and bodybuilding (don’t get your hopes up on that one lol). I have what I’d call a normal sex drive for my age and situation; I masturbate quite a bit. I have done quite a bit of sexting through Reddit, but I’ve only ever been to 2nd base in real life. I’ve kissed multiple women and had girlfriends, but it’s never progressed further.

In terms of what I’m looking for, I do have some qualifiers. I don’t want to get involved with anyone already in a relationship. No married, polyamorous, ENM, or anything of the sort. I don’t care if you have fwb or are seeing other people; I just don’t want to get involved with anyone in a relationship. Age, besides being over 18, is not an issue for me. In fact, I’d be very interested in chatting with an older woman who’s into younger guys and who’s willing to kindly help me with my virginity situation.

In you’re in Northern Utah or nearby and would like to know more, please chat me!