I am intelligent, thoughtful, kinky, and might even play along with your games sometimes. Looking for something relatively local to the PNW/Seattle area, and more than a one-time hookup, as I believe that D/s relationships are far more satisfying when given ample time to understand each other on both a physical and emotional level. Trusting the person that you went home from the bar with to give you a few spanks is great, but what I'm looking for takes more trust and more time to develop.

When it comes to BDSM, I have nearly a decade of experience in D/s, both casually and long-term, and have had quite a few interesting experiences over the years. I am not afraid to try something new as long as it's consensual and seems like we'd have fun with it. My own kinks are too many to list and constantly evolving, so I'll give a few that either hold a special place in my heart or have made me hard recently: orgasm control/denial, degradation, mindbreak, impact, and anal.

Additionally, there are a few things I know do not work well for me from experience, and am generally not interested or drawn to them. One is a 24/7 and/or TPE dynamic, though I do enjoy smaller elements of power exchange that are either limited to certain situations or periods of time. I personally do not find a 24/7 dynamic sustainable for me as not only do we both have lives outside of our relationship and kink, but there are inevitably days where we need to be equals and human-to-human with each other. I'm not interested in forcing you to cook dinner and lick the bottoms of my feet after you just had a horrible day of work and need to vent and cry, for example. TPE is not what either of us need in that moment.

I've talked at length about myself, but now it's time to talk about you. To describe an ideal submissive partner in only a few words: communicative, honest, eager, and open-minded. You do not need experience; I can help you with the experience portion. What I do need from you is to communicate honestly with me. I need to understand what you enjoy, how you're feeling, and be able to solve problems with you. I need you to use your words because I cannot read your mind. Most of all, I also need your consent. You're going to set boundaries. I will respect them. Furthermore, I find the eager element very sexy; being eager to please me specifically is very personally fulfilling to my primal desires. Outside of kink and sex, I'm also looking for a great friend. Someone who can banter with me over text on a slow day at work and can go to board game night with some friends as normal two people, either platonic or openly romantic. I hope you enjoy being spammed with cute cat videos and memes, and return me the favor. Laughing together is a must, and I'm sure that we could laugh at how bananas it is to have met on reddit.

My job is inconsistently high-paced and stressful, but is an otherwise superb career. I have my own apartment with no roommates, a car, and no kids. Said apartment will also hopefully be filled with pets in the near future, ideally a dog or two kittens. I am an honest and open man, and will both provide emotional support and appreciate yours when I need it. My cooking is excellent and am very willing to prove that to you. I am also over 6 feet tall and exercise regularly. Happy to exchange pictures as soon as you prove to me you're not a bot.

If you read this far and have found that we aren't a match, I thank you for your time and respect, and wish you the best in your search. If you think we may fit into each others lives, send a message so we can chat.