Experienced Dominant and in a perfect world I would be looking for a live in domestic submissive for domestic duties and servitude. Looking for a submissive who wants a new start and location under the protection of a mature Dominant who will always keep you first in a safe and secure environment. This is an opportunity to live and learn in a lake front environment on a beautiful rural lake community with lots to do 40 miles east of Tulsa Oklahoma. I can travel to meet you in person when you feel comfortable after we learn some things about each other through the vetting process. I can take it slow as I am just out of a 15 year D/s dynamic (ended up being a DDlg) she identified as a middle. I personally took over a year off to process the loss and celebrate the joy this submissive shared with me. I am Sapiosexual and well schooled (MPHand MPA) love long intelligent conversations about everything or nothing, communication is a must in any relationship. I also follow Lakota teaching and very involved with native spirituality which includes being a native artist. I do travel and you will always have lots of fun things to do, people to meet when and if you want to come along. I have a successful small business which allows me the opportunity to work as I please and option to work a weekend every other month. I retired early from a state position I held for over 25 years. I’m financially independent and secure if that matters. This is for only a serious minded submissive or someone who lacks and wants the experience, or seriously wants training and skill to serve a Daddy/Master. Just tell me what you’re looking for and let’s start there. I don’t need to say more about myself as I’m an open book ask anything even if you just want advice or information on BDSM. I’m looking forward to learning more about you and especially learning with you. I’m easy going, always a gentleman outside of the home, respectful of others, humorous and fun to be around and fair. I have mentors and friends in the lifestyle I talk to regularly. I’m on FetLife and have been for years if that matters. I’m not looking for a piece of ass as so many here are on sites. I’m looking for a good long term dynamic between a Dominant and a submissive. BDSM can be sexual or non sexual at times but I can say very stimulating and exciting with the right partner. Hope you the best in your journey…