Hi there! I am looking for someone to befriend my submissive fiancé, and help her to be more open about her sexuality, and about involving another person. I am a soft dominant, she is a submissive, and we’ve been together for a little over a year. During that year, we have explored our dynamic together, and built a deep bond. She has slowly started to open up about sex and her desires and fantasies, and has expressed a huge desire to make my fantasies happen! One of those fantasies is a threesome, or even something that evolved into a relationship with both of you! However, she has always been very monogamous, and I feel like a lot of that comes from her Catholic upbringing and having her be open to someone else could be a dicey discussion. However, with someone else who she is friends with and feels comfortable with? Someone who gently guides her into exploring this and helps her to be more open sexually. You would be submissive to me, and would discuss things as they progressed and receive guidance, instructions etc. discretion is important, she will not know how we met etc. This would be a polyfidelity relationship that would stay between you, I, and her.

A little about an ideal match:

I love curvy, busty women. I think all women are beautiful/sexy, but that is what I tend to prefer. You should be into tall, skinny unbearded geeky/nerdy men.

You are looking to build a deep, long lasting bond that can evolve into something more. Sweet, affectionate, loyal, honest, open communicator, open minded, kinky and open about sexuality, high libido, pleaser

I want someone that shares my interests, in and out of the bedroom. You should be into video/computer games, movies (sci-fi/action/comedy leaning), music (edm genres leaning), but also be into things like camping, hiking, cooking, and gardening! Kinks, well, I’d rather we talk about all the dirty stuff when we’re getting to know each other. I will say I’m not into pain outside of some light bdsm, scat or blood, nor am I really into degradation or sadism. I am however into a lot and have a lot of fantasies, things I want to do/try! We are both 420 friendly, me more so than her.

I’m 41, I’ll be 42 in June. She is 30. I live in WV, she lives in FL, and has family in NY. We are both very nice, loving people, with lots of love to give. We’re both white, but I’m absolutely open to other races. Looks are secondary to who you are and how you treat others, especially in a relationship. I am demisexual, and will want to get to know you first. Of course I’m 200% clean, and can voice verify. If this has sparked your interest, I would love to hear from you!