Taking myself out there and see other possibilities after a very painful heartbreak. I hope you read this from top to bottom so I could setup a proper expectation, it might be long but definitely will save our time and efforts.

Disclaimer: I am a pre-op transwoman. 6 months in hormonal replacement therapy and doesn’t have any plans having sex reassignment surgery. I guess that this is an important part to disclose right away.

Here are the most recent face pic of mine

Who am I?

Hello, my lived name is Francine. I just turned 22 years old this April and living in Manila, Philippines. ENTP, Aries, 5’4 in height, 50 kg in weight, and has a slim body. I have 16 tattoos and 2 piercing in my lobe. I am still studying in college and trying to earn a bachelor’s degree in Political Economy, hopefully I would graduate this year. I also have a full-time job which I work in night shift.

My hobbies involve playing volleyball, pc games such as DOTA 2 and Genshin Impact (I have a tattoo of all the elements on my back). I spend my weekends usually with friends having a sleepover, drink, or coffee. I love having quality time with people I love. I am torn between being an outdoor person and just staying indoors, depending on the mood; but I can never say no to talking about a lot of things over coffee.

I like binge watching series. I am on the 10th season of Shameless which I started watching last year of November. I love watching Disney movies ever since I was a child as I love to be a princess someday. But my favorite movie is Titanic, it never fails to make me cry.

Politics is somewhat a big deal to me and I’m leaning to more of a liberal side. So if you believe drag shows groom children, abortion is not a healthcare, trans rights are not human rights, and the like, please skip my profile.

Everything you will read after this line of course does not come to an instant, but takes time. No rush, but setting up expectation of what I want in a man and what relationship I want to sign in.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for a MAN, not a boy. Let’s start from that.

I am attracted to masculinity. I don’t give a big deal about physical qualities but if you would ask me what I like in terms of those: Taller than me (maybe 5’10 and above), bigger body physique than me as I want to feel secure whenever I am with you, has a beard, and clean cut. I am very particular in hygiene and how you present yourself.

As someone who works for herself so much, I am expecting my partner to be like that as well. I am for quality men only, I will never settle for less. I cannot be with someone who cannot be proud of me and wants to keep me like a secret, I have lived in closet for more than 21 years and I deserve the best in this world the same as you do.

My man should know what I am in his life, and that should be a partner. I wanna be part of his priorities, I don’t want to be someone like an option. I don’t want to be your partner only when it is convenient to you.

A man who accepts and recognizes my identity, proud of who I am whether is it about my wins or flaws. Very respectful with boundaries, knows how to take care a woman like me.

A man who is man enough to open his self to mine, man enough to give me his whole bread and not bread crumbs, man enough to admit his mistakes and work for it, man enough.

What is relationship for me and what kind of relationship am I looking for?

In a relationship, I must say that I am somehow needy and has an anxious attachment style; but when I feel secure, care, and love, you don’t have to worry about that. I am willing to be a traditional woman, only for a traditional man.

I believe than relationship is a give-and-take set-up, one-sided relationship will never work. It doesn’t need to be 50-50, but we both know how to take efforts for different aspects of our relationship.

I am strictly monogamous, so open relationship or poly will not work for me. In a relationship, I treat it very seriously and I am fully committed so I am expecting you to be as well. I started my “hoe days” too early and I just really date now for more serious, long-lasting, and eventually for eternal.

I don’t mind the distance and relocating, but you must know that long distance relationship is harder than any typical relationships, especially if we are in the other sides of the world. Long distance relationship requires a lot of effort, commitment, understanding, and patience. So if you are not ready with this, or somehow not open to this idea, please don’t waste your time.

Because of HRT, my libido went really down. I am demisexual, it takes time for me to have intimate moments with you as I treat love-making very personal. I am a verse, but leaning to more of a bottom side since it’s hard for me to get a hard-on because of HRT.

I treat relationship as a room for growth to both parties. There is no linear or perfect relationship, that is why I need a partner who doesn’t think like when problem arises, break up is the solution. We gonna go through ups and downs, but I am here to support and give everything I can as long as I feel that you are doing the same thing to me.

Communication is big deal for me. I don’t want to play mind games and charades, we are not teenagers anymore. I love calls (video calls to be specific) more than text. I love exchanging pics, random thoughts about the day, and learn everything you wanna share as I want to know everything about my partner; for me to know him, how I can cater his needs and emotions better, and how I can be a better partner for him.

If you reached this point, I wanna say thank you for your time and effort to read all through this. If I am what you are looking for and you think we are a match based on what I am looking for, shoot your shot! Send me a message, brief background about yourself and pictures of you. See you!