WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:

A submissive or switchy guy who is mentally stable, has their own place or can host occasionally, is not looking for his "forever mommy" and is mature enough to develop a FWB relationship built on open communication. I enjoy 'dominant in the streets, sub in the sheets' types but nerdy introverts are just as sexy to me. I don't care how tall you are! However, I do think there should be physical attraction on both sides and my preferences lean toward slim/athletic white men somewhere between 24-30. I enjoy golden retriever energy and enthusiasm just as much as shy and quiet, as long as your sexual energy vibrates on your skin, you're my type. I believe femdom is a form of creative expression and would love to cook things up together.

GENERAL ABOUT ME (Vanilla):

I'm passionate about writing, self expression and creativity. I listen to tons of music with favorite artists ranging from Depeche Mode & Bjork to Griz & SG Lewis. A sucker for live music (currently on the concert calendar is Coachella and Palm Tree Music Festival), love dancing and karaoke! If I'm chilling at home you can catch me binging dramas like Normal People, historical dramas (The Empress) or psychological thrillers (The OA, DARK).

I work in the fitness industry in sales (I used to be a spin instructor) and I do keep active with yoga, strength training, pole (I'm terrible, but I try) and I ran my first full marathon in January. My body type is somewhere between "fit-thick" and "I never say no to carbs." Here's a pic of me https://imgur.com/a/xbIuDpW

I'm 34, Latina and have a primary partner. We're in an ethically non-monogamous relationship but he's not a cuck or involved in any way. I pursue my kink interests with his blessing and can host on occasion if properly scheduled. I would like to be able to see you ~2x/month or more if convenience allows. I prefer long, drawn out sessions but also enjoy just taking what I want on occasion.

WHAT IT'S LIKE TO DATE ME:

I'm intense yet nurturing. I like intensity and I'm a driven person. Once I want something, I put my energy into bringing it to life. I might want you in chastity for 7-10 days before seeing me, ask for body writing or for you to wear panties to the gym, I love sharing photos and videos between sessions, giving JOI through voice chat or on video, edging you remotely, instructing you to use toys. Once in session, you belong to me. Your sole desire should be to please me and be used by me in any way I choose (within your limits). We might play games for punishments/funishments/rewards or I may just want you to pose for me while I stare into your soul and play with myself. You'll be naked and on your knees with your eyes speaking to me because good boys only have one thing to say, "Yes, Goddess." Occasionally, I might want us to go out so we can pretend I'm your stepmom while I tease you in public until you blush. (Keep in mind these are examples, I would have a clear understanding of your limits prior to play and wouldn't ask for anything we haven't agreed to).

KINK:

I've been in the lifestyle for about 2 years and was called a natural after only my 2nd time in a dominant role. I'm not a leather and latex domme and find I work best with sapiosexual types who begin getting off on the mental stimulation of being submissive and can easily access their sub side. I've discovered a lot about myself and what makes being a domme a truly incredible experience and it starts with the ability to SURRENDER. When we're able to give in to our most primal and visceral desires, that's when the magic happens. I've primarily been a mommy domme type and pleasure domme, but I also enjoy being a bit of a sadist. I have a big list of kink interests, ask me :)

What really excites me is feeling your desire and desperation. I consider myself an energy succubus so submissives who are very expressive/verbal to the front of the line please. I take pride in creating the fantasy and building scenes that are progressive. I'm looking for someone who's not going to be a passive sub waiting like a pillow princess but an active participant with a good imagination and an eagerness to build on each session.

My limits: Anything illegal, watersports, money exchange, animals, scat, blood play, diapers, ball busting, breath play.

PRIOR TO SENDING ME A MESSAGE, PLEASE CONSIDER MY REQUIREMENTS:

• You must be in Southern California as I'm ONLY looking for a connection IN PERSON. If you're wondering whether you're close enough to me, I'll keep it simple: how easy can you get to Disneyland? If your answer isn't "at the drop of a hat at your command," you're TOO FAR.
• Ages 24-30, White, Minimal body hair
• Single or ENM/poly. Absolutely no one looking for something "discreet" AKA cheating
• Willingness to verify with SFW photo. I'm happy to go through any verification process you feel you need first but I won't be continuing the conversation if you're too scared to show me your face.
• Confidently submissive. Might seem contradictory, but what I mean to say is that IF you're "not sure" about your submissive tendencies or what you enjoy as a sub, it's not going to work out

In your message to me please let me know your age, where you're located, if you can host, relationship status, limits and perhaps the story of the first time you realized you were a sub. I would love if you had any questions for me so don't be shy to ask or include anything that you feel is important. Chats are preferred.