Note: Although this says Philadelphia, I’m open to people from everywhere. We would start online and see where it goes from there.

My desire is both simple and extremely difficult: I want to own you totally and completely. your body, your mind, your morals, your vote, your favorite sports team - all will be Mine to decide.

That’s the goal. It takes a good while to get there - but that needs to be your desire too.

Your need to please Me and be found pleasing by Me must be the single most important thing in your life.

Slavery isn’t fun, or fair. If you have any doubts, watch Cinderella. This doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy ourselves, or that everything will be a Bergman movie all the time.

I’m a feminist who believes in Total Power Exchange. Curious, right? I think that women should have complete and total agency over their bodies, and that includes the right to give that agency up.

Smart and able to converse means a ton to Me. I want someone educated. I have a Master’s degree in drama from Stanford, and I want you to be able to keep up.

No, I’m not looking for bedroom only, This is 24/7/365.

A relationship based in TPE is still a relationship. If you can’t handle someone doting on you, or cuteness, or just cuddling - keep keepin’ on.

Slavery is a practice. Just like anything else, if you commit to it and work on it, you will get better. If you feel you are inferior to Men, let one of them take the last can of plum tomatoes at the supermarket, the one you need for your ragu, and sit with the feeling that brings up.

Yes, I understand that this type of power has to be earned. I’m not a complete asshole. However, please come to this with some respect and a willingness to try. I can’t count the number of supposed slaves who have told Me they want to be controlled completely and totally, with all decisions made for them - and freak out when I ask for a daily journal, - claiming they don’t write or some such idiocy. Recently, I had a slave tell me that they would “go to sleep whenever they goddamn felt like it.”

What do I want to do with you? Whatever I want whenever I want to. Strap in - it’s going to be a hell of a ride. I will not get you arrested, fired, or disowned.

Don’t make promises you can’t keep. If you say you are going to be online at 3, be there. If not, contact Me. Other responsibilities are to be juggled around My schedule, not the other way around.

I think a true slave is the most precious thing in the world, and I will treasure you, no matter how harsh I might be. You serve Me, I take care of you.

I very well might have a savior complex, but I’m not looking to rescue you. No, I can’t send money, or relocate you immediately, or help you get away from your abusive boyfriend. I know this because I’ve tried 1 and 3.

This isn’t just sexual - non-sexual service is arguably more important and often more transgressive.

I won’t always be in DOM mode, and I understand you won’t always be in slave mode either — we both need time to just be. However, just because we cuddle and tell bad jokes doesn’t mean the overall dynamic has changed.

Please be thin and preferably petite. I’m not being as big of an idiot as I seem. I’m in a loving open relationship (we’ve been together 11 years) and she is a big girl. I’m looking to find what I don’t already have in My life.

No, I don’t collar quickly or easily -the last three women I collared all became RL partners. This is what you would be getting into.

Professional women (Doctors, Lawyers, MBA’s) are vastly preferred, as are those with Ivy League or Ivy League -equivalent degrees.) The more you have to offer, both personally and professionally, the more significant giving it up becomes. I have no interest in a brainless bimbo.

For what I want, it’s much easier if you are unmarried and child free.

A few things about Me: I’m non-binary, with Cerebral Palsy, and I sometimes use a wheelchair. I’n addition, I can ROCK a broomstick skirt.

Desires: TPE, CNC, humiliation, degradation, objectification, begging , asking permission, non sexual service, daily communication, long talks , book, TV, and podcast recommendations, cuddles, laugher, watching the same program together. 420 friendly.

Limits: DD/lg, toilet play, topping from the bottom, brats, ghosting, game players, buying your whatever, conservatives, anti-semites, anti-vaxxers.

Come be the most important person in My life. Reply here first, and then we can move to other places once we click.