ABOUT ME:

I'm a Dominant/Daddy Dom in an ethically non-monogamous relationship (parallel - 40F) looking for a FWB or something similar with someone local to the Seattle area. I'm not interested in one night stands/hookups, but open to playing together sexually after a few dates if we click and there's interest in building a connection over time.

I'm about 6’-4”, average body (shirtless pic on profile), Caucasian, thoughtful, intelligent and I've got my shit together. I primarily enjoy power exchange, bondage, light to moderate impact play, rough sex, and quality aftercare. I’m comfortable starting mostly vanilla if you're new to BDSM or need time to ease into the rough and kinky stuff. Despite my size (and the seriousness of my writing style *shrug*), I’m approachable, understanding, non-judgmental and I love to laugh and have a good time!

Day-to-day I am a caregiver, I love to give compliments, and if you get a compliment from me it will be sincere. You can tell me anything openly and honestly without fear of judgement or criticism, and I will be patient if you need time to open up. During our playtime you may sometimes feel owned and used, but afterwards you will know that you are valued as a person.

Sexually I can be rough, but I am also vigilant about the needs of my partner. I am visually stimulated and you should expect to wear whatever clothing I give you to put on. I enjoy bondage with cuffs and straps, but I will most often engage in manual restraint with my hands and body.

I can host - North Mill Creek/South Everett and I commute to Bellevue.

Looking for someone that's available a few times each month. If you can host and are near my commute it opens more options for play sessions and vanilla dates.

YOU:

I don't believe in perfection, so if you don't check every box but think we might click, lets chat and see where things go. I'm looking for a cute play partner with submissive tendencies in search of a fun connection with plenty of kinky sex. You should enjoy (or preferably adore!) being touched, kissed, cuddled and having your hair played with. Sexually, you should enjoy having your hair pulled, rough sex, being physically moved around, bondage/restraints, wearing lingerie/sexy outfits, choking, and spanking/slapping. Must be STI risk aware.

Bonus qualities (none required): Also ENM/Poly. Very short/petite (under 140 lbs is ideal regardless of height). 18-35 years old. Exhibitionist. Enjoys mild degradation. Interest in: domestic service, CNC, free use, ageplay or taboo role play.

I’m open to any level of experience with BDSM/kink and we'll introduce it at a pace you're comfortable with.

DEALBREAKERS:

Dishonesty. Women only. No sex workers.

BBW and Trans will not be a good match.