Married guys get a lot of heat (and downvotes) on this and similar subs, and while I am sure some or even most of it is warranted, long term relationships are hard, passions sometimes die out, and leaving is sometimes extremely complicated. Everyone’s circumstances are different. For instance, as shitty as it is, sometimes infidelity is the first step to building up the courage to leave. Other times it’s a way for a partner to fulfill unmet needs.People have always cheated and they always will, and the reasons are never as black and white as we want them to be.
Actually forget all that. Most married guys suck and are lame and creepy. I’m not them.
I’m a tall, fun, interesting and attractive 40yo who just so happens to be married to his roommate.
Up until about 5 years ago, I was still cool, and hot, and had a whole bunch of age gap relationships.
Now I’m 40, and in a sexless marriage, but I’m the same guy who was dating 22yo’s 5 years ago. Sometimes it feels like I just woke up in someone else’s life. It’s not horrible or terrifying. It’s comfortable and I’m a successful adult, but it’s sooooooo booooooring. I miss adventure and fun and being wanted (omg do I miss being wanted). I still get checked out by much younger women, but I don’t want to be the lame/sleezy married guy hitting on younger women.
So here I am being the lame/sleezy married guy on Reddit. But no one is still reading this anyway so whatever.
I’d be cool with friends, or friends with benefits, or even someone to just chat with on telegram or signal. I’m funny and smart and interesting and can tell you stories about what it was like being cool and hot in 2005. And you can tell me about cool parties and interesting music and young person shit.
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