Hey everyone. I am 33 year old Sadist Dom and I have been in this lifestyle from quite some time. I have had sub slaves in the past and have had very deep and loving relationships with them but alas, beautiful relationships end for various reasons. I am recently out of a relationship and really feel the void of a sub and would like to have someone special take that place. Even though you will be a sub slave, you will be my partner more than that.

I am looking for something long term and meaningful that we can grow, it can be online as of now but I aim for the relationship to be irl eventually. I am currently in Dublin. I am pretty ambitious and focused about my life and career. I am an international MBA student and I have a pretty vanilla lifestyle for the people on the outside but when it comes to relationships and partners, I need my partner to be a masochist sub with slave tendencies who also has likes, goals and hobbies outside the kinks. I am heavily into impact play, pain, fisting, TPE, degradation and I like to control aspects of your life, however I am not looking for a relationship based entirely on kinks.

I have tried this before but usually come across subs who are not serious about this dynamic or they are just looking for a quick rush of speaking to a stranger on the internet, I guess that's the reality of reddit personals. I am looking for a masochist sub and I am not very harsh or impulsive unless it is required but I am particular about my rules and orders. I am quite understanding about your work, study or vanilla life and would incorporate our dynamic in such a way that you are always serving but you can continue with your daily life.

I will make routines and rules for you to follow which will include tasks and orders for you and you will eventually be collared. I do want you to know that I care for my subs a lot so I am emotionally invested in keeping you happy but your place will be of a obedient sub slave. I will treat you like a princess and be very caring but I can be quite punishing depending on your attitude. I am good at reading people through experience, enough to understand if you want to be treated like a princess or a slut wanting to be humiliated and punished.

I strongly believe in communication and would really like to know each other intimately enough to make this relationship work for a long time. I want you to put in equal effort to know me and to actually be a partner in making a relationship work. I am creative and like to read a lot, listen to music, travelling, watching TV shows, going to a pub on the weekend and having a beer and enjoy life in general. I also smoke sometimes and I am 420 friendly :p. I am passionate about philosophy, life, movies, music, food, art, history, architecture

If you have read through this and decide on messaging me, I expect you to be loyal, devoted and submissive. I don't mind if you are in it just for the kicks but you should let me know if that's the case and be serious about this dynamic because its more than just a lifestyle and I invest a lot of time in a relationship.

For all the new subs who are interested in this lifestyle and want to get into this dynamic, I am patient and understanding so don't worry about me being strict initially or taking things too fast. Pm me if you find this post interesting or if you are someone experienced who is looking for something like this. Have a good day everyone!