TL;DR If you cannot read this post, I am not the man you are looking for.

About me:

I(45m) am an American living in Costa Rica. I have been here for almost two years. I have previously lived in Nashville, Atlanta, Dallas, Kansas City, Orange County(CA), and San Diego. I own a few internet businesses, and I can live anywhere in the world, so why not live in paradise? I am in Costa Rica until I find a reason to live elsewhere, and that reason could be you.

I love to travel and experience new things. I spent a week in Chile and three weeks in Europe in the past six months. Life is short, and we need to make the time to do the things on our bucket lists. I love to try restaurants and new cuisines. I also enjoy good movies and have been to the Sundance Film Festival 6 times.

I work a lot because I love what I do, and I wish to create a wonderful life for a family someday. When I am not working, I love to garden (I am a certified master gardener), go to the beach, relax in snowy environments, play board games, and enjoy the company of friends.

I am a very nurturing dom. Submit to me, and I will shower you with love and appreciation for being my little cum slut. I will treasure you because you will be my most prized possession. I know who I am. I know what I want, and I have high expectations. I am a handsome man and have never had problems attracting women, but I am not looking for a conquest. I am looking for a woman to share my entire life with if she is willing to submit to me.

My kinks include free use, CNC, sensation play, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, face fucking, cock worship, dirty talk, wax play, nipple play, praise, breeding, prostate play, and restraints.

What I am looking for:

First and most importantly, please be intelligent. I am not looking for a dumb cum whore (at least not outside the dynamic). I am looking for a clever and cunning woman with whom I can converse intelligently. I need someone who can defeat me in board games as often as I beat her. I need a woman with the emotional intelligence to understand my perspective and effectively communicate her needs and limits to me. If you submit to me, you know yourself and your needs. You must be comfortable sharing your needs with me because I am not psychic. You are submissive because you know that this is something you want and need. After all, it makes you feel comfortable to be submissive. You are not submissive because you are not smart enough to provide for yourself.

I need someone who can travel the world with me. It would be best if you had a passion for experiencing new places and things. It is more fun to share new things with someone you care about than do them yourself. We are not compatible if you are the type who always likes to stay in your house. I spend a lot of nights at home, but I get cabin fever if I don't get out enough.

I can't speak for other men, but I know what I need. I get irritable if I do not have an orgasm at least once every day. I think all men are like this, but most men masturbate to control this urge, and they certainly don't want to admit it. I know who I am, and I am not ashamed of it, so you should be prepared to beg me for my cum every day because you know it makes me the best man I can be. As my submissive, your primary objective will be to keep me satisfied and drained at all times. I love giving and receiving oral sex, so please be the same. I love to give oral sex, and there will be times that I want to restrain you and eat your pussy until I am satisfied. Traditional sex is excellent, but if you are the person who only gives oral sex because you feel obligated to, then you and I are not a match. You need to love giving oral sex as much as I do.

As far as our future is concerned, I plan to own a large plot of land soon and build our dream home. You can help me decide where to construct it. It can be near the city, or we can find a more remote spot if we want more privacy. I will be the final decision-maker on the house, but I hope to get your input on everything. We will hopefully have a family and a monogamous marriage. As a master gardener, I believe it would be fun to grow a lot of our food and be a little self-reliant. We can have livestock, including chickens and perhaps horses. Managing our home and family would be your responsibility, but I will help. If you don't know what to do, I will teach you. I will finance our life together and work hard to provide for us to ensure you and our family meet all of their needs. It probably sounds like traditional gender roles, but I hope you don't see it that way. As my submissive, your wants and needs will always be as important to me as my own. We will be there to improve each other's lives with clearly defined roles and responsibilities, and we will have the freedom to depart from traditional norms. Suppose you like TPE and want clear instructions and routines spelled out for you. In that case, I can do that, or you can have more flexibility if it serves you better to have that flexibility.

Next Steps:

If you are still reading this, we may be compatible. Your first step in our journey together starts now. Send me a picture of your face in private chat, so I know who I am talking to. Then tell me your kinks. Let me know:

What do you have experience with?

What do you hope to experiment with?

What is off-limits?

If you do not follow my instructions, I will block you because I have no interest in a sub who cannot follow simple directions. If you and I are compatible, I will have more questions for you.

I expect to have phone conversations with you relatively quickly, so only message me if you are comfortable with this.