Greetings

Here is a little about me and what I’m looking for. If it is as you desire , please let me know . I am a 52 yr old Dom who is loving,caring,kind,soft,respectful, honest,devoted gentleman from south,with southern draw and Sam Elliot deep voice . Seeking marriage dynamic future with my submissive partner.

I am stable good job,good benefits I am a hopeless romantic, like Hallmark Channels, Holiday Romantics etc. but I’ll say you lie if you say it in public :-) My personality test says Isfj-A Defender it said. was surprised how dead on it was . To be honest haven’t been online really in years , my time has always been dedicated to my partner and family. So not app tech savvy. ( looking to expand that , haven’t had a need for it until now . I’ve always just been work and home for the last eight years.

So about me .

I like rules,structure,planing,guidance,discipline respect and trust in my relationship with my partner . No less than I give of my own. Order controls chaos , chaos gives me anxiety, don’t like anxiety. I like calm and soft . ( especially after the last eight years ) .

I think communication is key in any relationship without it only leads to complete misunderstandings and misguided mentality.

Where the mind goes the body follows!

I believe working together in the same form and direction each devoted to the others needs and desires to the best of our abilities brings success and growth potential.

I am a loner. I literally have 0friends or family around. Mostly do to past trauma events in my life etc. along with the mixture of toxic relationship I was in i just stopped being around people in general in public , but would love to go out with my partner and actually get to enjoy life , live a little etc so to speak. I can’t fly . I like home. I know I and my family are safe there. I need a soft partner who desires the role as the center of our home its condition , her duties, her requested support and physical pleasures as my partner. One who communicates with me and is understanding. I am looking for that friend, lover and partner. Soft to medium ( willing to explore with limits like minded female )

Who wishes to have that safe , warm and fuzzy feelings that her life will be provided for together with her partner and she is protected by a good man who loves her and is thankful for the gift she is and the inspiration she brings . Who wishes to be a partner and handle her role and duties responsible as we define it together within our relationship . From home chores to budget etc. to your work, if you work , is it part time , full time etc. ( I tend to lean more traditional ) in a relationship.

I’m always around as I don’t sleep much and am obviously alone . So plenty of time to get to know someone seriously looking.

Happy to trade pics , prefer chat , video calls etc. , as long as you put serious effort and TIME! I know I will . I have always been the one to give it all in a relationship and gladly put my self last in it . This time I’m seeking someone who desires to put me FIRST ! In theirs . (Clingy to the front please. ( 😂 ) Because I already Know they are in mine. I’m alone . I am a rock you can hide behind if need be or the lap to sit in and tell me about your day when your needing support and guidance.

I’m distant in nature ( at the moment again recent past ) holding to find the one who touches my heart with her key to let loose , all the pent up emotions, love, affection, etc I have had to keep locked away for so long .

However I’m not completely boring as I might sound . I enjoy having fun. Don’t really care what kind either to tell the truth. From sitting around doing a puzzle,video games,board games, movies,outdoors and more,to going to a concert . I love music listen all night long as I have nothing better to do . Love paranormal ( hope you ghost hunt ) .

Prefer no more children of my own, but can discuss. If you already have that’s fine as well. I don’t drink , I do enjoy 420 it helps my chronic pain and sleep insomnia.

Where the mind goes the body follows! What’s on your mind ?

Are you an attractive sub female seriously seeking a partner , or you just here playing?

Your TIME is the most valuable thing you have to offer. Let’s not waste ours unless we doing it together!

Thanks 🙏