I’m getting fairly sick of the insecure attacking me every time I admit to being a gold star. In what universe is a homosexual person not having had sex with the opposite sex: 1. A bad thing 2. An attack on anyone else.

There is only one normal reaction, non-homophobic reaction, that people should have upon hearing that someone is a gold star, and it’s something along the lines of thinking “that’s great that this person never had to endure what would have been unwanted sex with someone they’re not capable of being attracted to.” Almost any other reaction is homophobia or a projected insecurity that is not actually the fault of the gold star lesbian. If you have the knee jerk reaction of feeling invalidated or feel like you’re being called dirty or impure, that is a projection.

All non-gold stars should feel happy for gold stars for not having to go through what they went through. Grow up.